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Topic: Drunk and depressed...
L3fTy's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:06 PM
Is there really someone out there for me, or are the powers that be playing a sick joke on me?

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:09 PM
Nice Fender bassflowerforyou

L3fTy's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:10 PM
Good call its one of my many p-basses....

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:12 PM
If you're drunk what were you drinking?

I'm here to talk...so, I'll get the next roundbigsmile

L3fTy's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:14 PM
Tvarscki 100 vodka....

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:14 PM
It may feel like that at times L3 but there is someone... AND IF by chance there isn't, learn to love you and be happy with what you can do and enjoy time with friends and family....

Growing up my mom always told me "no one can love you unless you can love yourself" along with "if you don't love yourself how can you be lovable to anyone else?"... At some point about 6 yrs ago I finally got what she meant and understood the concept... If we are not happy with ourselves and if we can love ourselves how can we expect others to?

Love you and it will all follow... Don't look or ask, or expect it and it will come.. Ask many, that's the way it happened for them... God knocks on doors but if you don't hear it or answer, you can't blame him that you were preoccupied (not you personally a metaphor for all as necessary)

L3fTy's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:14 PM
I am a cheap drunk lol...

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:17 PM

It may feel like that at times L3 but there is someone... AND IF by chance there isn't, learn to love you and be happy with what you can do and enjoy time with friends and family....

Growing up my mom always told me "no one can love you unless you can love yourself" along with "if you don't love yourself how can you be lovable to anyone else?"... At some point about 6 yrs ago I finally got what she meant and understood the concept... If we are not happy with ourselves and if we can love ourselves how can we expect others to?

Love you and it will all follow... Don't look or ask, or expect it and it will come.. Ask many, that's the way it happened for them... God knocks on doors but if you don't hear it or answer, you can't blame him that you were preoccupied (not you personally a metaphor for all as necessary)


always a wise woman ^^^

Very true. Heres another metaphor & a vodka...
"Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it illudes you. However, when you are not looking for it, it will come to rest in your palm."

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:18 PM
drinker drinker

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:19 PM
Twilights always the beautiful one.. Thank you.. AND you said it far more beautifully and poetically.. flowerforyou

L3fTy's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:19 PM
I dont know what to do anymore...I hate being alone its horrible..

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:25 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Wed 10/01/08 11:25 PM

I dont know what to do anymore...I hate being alone its horrible..


Always something more horrible then being alone...matter of fact there are a number of things far worse then being lonely. I'm alone, I could care less...honestly, I would rather be patient and see if the right one happens to pass by...if not, I will still wake up tomorrow with the ability to form my own indpendent thoughts (well hopefully).:tongue:

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:27 PM

Twilights always the beautiful one.. Thank you.. AND you said it far more beautifully and poetically.. flowerforyou


can't give me credit...I took that one from my grandma:wink:

L3fTy's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:28 PM
I dont know how to respond, im way to drunk, i just know I Feel more bad then I ever have in my life...I just want it to go away...

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:29 PM
Hmmm I am drunk and depressed is there someone for me. Sorry dude don't need that headache; been there, done that, don't need to do it again. Whatever your demons do yourself a favor; face them and deal with it so you can have your life back. Depression and alcoholism are treatable. Then you might have something more inviting to offer. Sounds harsh I know but you want someone to blow smoke up your....or really want you?

L3fTy's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:31 PM
Haha this is all real, dont blow **** up my ass...This is how I really feel, I dont want pitty I want answers....

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:31 PM

I dont know how to respond, im way to drunk, i just know I Feel more bad then I ever have in my life...I just want it to go away...


My advice then... make a cup of coffee, sip it & go outside and look at the stars (always helps me) and make sure you bookmark this page and reread it tomorrow. Tomorrow is a new day.flowerforyou

L3fTy's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:34 PM
Im just tired thats all, im tired of trying, and putting myself out there.... I just dont feel like I am going to find that right person, maybe this is my destiny...And im ok with that but I just wanna know for sure...

Cowgirlstomp's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:39 PM


It may feel like that at times L3 but there is someone... AND IF by chance there isn't, learn to love you and be happy with what you can do and enjoy time with friends and family....

Growing up my mom always told me "no one can love you unless you can love yourself" along with "if you don't love yourself how can you be lovable to anyone else?"... At some point about 6 yrs ago I finally got what she meant and understood the concept... If we are not happy with ourselves and if we can love ourselves how can we expect others to?

Love you and it will all follow... Don't look or ask, or expect it and it will come.. Ask many, that's the way it happened for them... God knocks on doors but if you don't hear it or answer, you can't blame him that you were preoccupied (not you personally a metaphor for all as necessary)


always a wise woman ^^^

Very true. Heres another metaphor & a vodka...
"Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it illudes you. However, when you are not looking for it, it will come to rest in your palm."


Or on your head as I once experienced... Then it flew off and then returned to my ass...noway noway noway

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:41 PM
Change is constant. If you're depressed, you will some day be happy - if you give it time. If you are drunk, you are sure to be sober soon enough.

At least you can play bass. I can only play "Careless Whispers" on the accordion and it's tough to get laid that way.

It'll be fine brother. drinker

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