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Topic: Does it hurt to flirt?
txmomof2 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 73300	Mon 09/29/08 11:33 AM
exactly if your significant other is not comfortable with certain things then you should respect them and honor their wishes.

MallyBthatsMe Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 199	Mon 09/29/08 11:34 AM
Maybe she's born with it. Maybe it's Maybelline

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Mon 09/29/08 11:34 AM
Nothing wrong with it...

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Mon 09/29/08 11:40 AM
Well im gonna be completely honest and say i think flirting CAN be hurtful. I have read the thread and appear to be in the minority, but to me, flirting is when 2 ppl look for attention from the opposite sex, and find eachother attractive, whether that be physically or mentally. Im personally not comfortable with my bf flirting with other women, being sociable is fine, but flirting can be misleading. Of course, i understand that my feelings may not be 'right', but they r just that, feelings, and i can only be honest.

txmomof2 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 73300	Mon 09/29/08 11:43 AM
Well im gonna be completely honest and say i think flirting CAN be hurtful. I have read the thread and appear to be in the minority, but to me, flirting is when 2 ppl look for attention from the opposite sex, and find eachother attractive, whether that be physically or mentally. Im personally not comfortable with my bf flirting with other women, being sociable is fine, but flirting can be misleading. Of course, i understand that my feelings may not be 'right', but they r just that, feelings, and i can only be honest. that's all you can be. and if you feel that way then your bf should respect that.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Mon 09/29/08 11:44 AM
If it did I would suffer from chronic pain dude!!!!!!!!!!!!

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Mon 09/29/08 11:44 AM
Does it hurt to flirt? Only in Bangkok

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Mon 09/29/08 11:45 AM
Well im gonna be completely honest and say i think flirting CAN be hurtful. I have read the thread and appear to be in the minority, but to me, flirting is when 2 ppl look for attention from the opposite sex, and find eachother attractive, whether that be physically or mentally. Im personally not comfortable with my bf flirting with other women, being sociable is fine, but flirting can be misleading. Of course, i understand that my feelings may not be 'right', but they r just that, feelings, and i can only be honest. It's not right or wrong. Some people can accept it and some people can't. And, I'm not saying I can.....it has to be something that the couple decides for themselves. You have to respect the boundaries or the relationship won't work.

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Mon 09/29/08 11:56 AM
Does it hurt to flirt? Only in Bangkok

Sir_Galahad Joined Tue 05/27/08 Posts: 600	Mon 09/29/08 11:57 AM
Does it hurt to flirt? wouldn't know. Never done it. I guess if you never do something, it can't hurt you, right?

jnbuglady Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 865	Mon 09/29/08 12:10 PM
Does it hurt to flirt? wouldn't know. Never done it. I guess if you never do something, it can't hurt you, right? Never?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 09/29/08 12:11 PM
I don't understand the whole concept.

Sir_Galahad Joined Tue 05/27/08 Posts: 600	Mon 09/29/08 12:15 PM
nope, never.

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Mon 09/29/08 12:17 PM Edited by heartSoul on Mon 09/29/08 12:18 PM
if your single and the person your flirting with is single, it would be okay if your in a relationship flirt with the one your involved with a lot less drama believe me