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Topic: what do you miss the most...
the_mind_flayer's photo
Sun 09/28/08 04:09 PM

about not having a wife or husband or a live in relationship


Nothing.

franshade's photo
Sun 09/28/08 04:13 PM
what do I miss the most??? hmmm, proud to say nothing, my aim is pretty good laugh

mcattygarnett's photo
Sun 09/28/08 04:19 PM

The companionship

I would have to agree

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:17 PM
Myself I miss having some to share those special moments with someone to cuddle with on a rainy day. Getting that special look from across the room knowing they are there because they want to be.........bigsmile

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:20 PM
Not missing anything.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:31 PM
the sex. Oh, wait. I already replied here.

Lakeman's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:32 PM
lol...yes the sex...but I adapt pretty easily to all situations...Im happy either way!!

tngxl65's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:33 PM

the yelling

the constant drone of belittling insults

the sound of smashing dishes

the cold shoulder and silent treatment




I'm starting to tear up....

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:34 PM


the yelling

the constant drone of belittling insults

the sound of smashing dishes

the cold shoulder and silent treatment




I'm starting to tear up....


laugh

Lakeman's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:37 PM



the yelling

the constant drone of belittling insults

the sound of smashing dishes

the cold shoulder and silent treatment




I'm starting to tear up....


laugh

Memories!!!!...In the corners of my mind...lmao!!!

RoamingOrator's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:38 PM
It's kind of funny, what you miss changes over time. I can remember when what I thought I missed was regular sex. I can remember when what I thought I missed was having someone to do things with. Now, after all these years, what I miss is being touched. I don't get any meaningful hugs anymore, no one curls up with me. These are the things I've been currently missing. I'm sure conversations will be in the near future, that's got to be the next logical progression, but with any luck, I'll never find out!

tngxl65's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:39 PM
I miss being silly and getting that 'you're insane' look while she can't help but smile. I miss someone being here when I go to bed. I miss getting home and someone noticing, and maybe even being excited about it. I miss just the touches that you get walking around the house or while shopping.

RKISIT's photo
Sun 09/28/08 07:40 PM
i miss, feeling like a glazed donutbigsmile

mischievouskttn's photo
Sun 09/28/08 08:04 PM
comfortable silences, just being in the same room together and not saying a word and not feeling like you have to.

no photo
Sun 09/28/08 08:30 PM
Edited by Scarlett_156 on Sun 09/28/08 08:31 PM

the yelling

the constant drone of belittling insults

the sound of smashing dishes

the cold shoulder and silent treatment




That made me LOL HARD.

I guess my own version of same would be:

The beeps, crashes, and screeches (and music that starts off kinda cool, but gets old after the 1,623rd repetition) of him playing video games for hours and hours and HOURS on end. (Also listening to the same CD or album over... and over... and over...)

His love for fixing these big greasy five-course dinners--and leaving all the dishes for me to clean up afterwards. It made me yearn for ramen noodles.

The smell of marijuana permeating everything in the house.

Knowing that he would rather have his parents think he was gay than tell them that we were a couple.

(etc)


It wasn't that bad, of course, or I wouldn't have stayed with him that long. We did really care about each other and had a lot of fun together; those things didn't really start to bug me until the last year or so that we were together.

But seriously, folks:

I don't miss anything about living with someone. My last live-in relationship lasted for 12 years; before that I had not lived alone for more than a few months at a time since the age of 18. I ALWAYS either lived with boyfriend(s) or had roommates.

Once I got used to living alone, I discovered that IT TOTALLY ROCKS. A lot of things that I considered my own personal problems completely disappeared once the stress of living with another person was gone.

My current boyfriend and I have discussed getting a place; if we do, there will be plenty of room, including each of us with his/her own bathroom and bedroom.

I can't really enjoy another person's company if I have to be around that person 24/7. yours in Chaos, Scarlett

toreybelle's photo
Mon 09/29/08 03:56 PM

I miss being silly and getting that 'you're insane' look while she can't help but smile. I miss someone being here when I go to bed. I miss getting home and someone noticing, and maybe even being excited about it. I miss just the touches that you get walking around the house or while shopping.


Wow I really relate to those things mentioned here...... oh to have those things again.....would be....a very happy time in my life!!!! For I would know that I've met someone that I could truly be myself with.

dcrdnk's photo
Mon 09/29/08 04:05 PM
companionship.... snugglin'.... oh yeah someone 2 do my laundry....

passionart's photo
Mon 09/29/08 04:10 PM

about not having a wife or husband or a live in relationship
thd communication two people, of like minds, share; the knowing that there will always be that special lady, waiting for me, after the war with the world; the moments that love brings to a man and woman that share this love; the touch, the caress, the kiss, the...

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