Like the song goes age is nothing but a number. It is how that person treat you that make you look pass there age. Take me as I am sort of thing as for me I don't care if he is older then me as long he will love me for me.

Like the song goes age is nothing but a number. It is how that person treat you that make you look pass there age. Take me as I am sort of thing as for me I don't care if he is older then me as long he will love me for me.

Yeah..it wasn't like that in the beginning...but after 3 years had passed...she changed her mind...that is fine...she was entitled to change her mind...anyone can.

If people are in it for the right reasons...or at least have reasons they are comfortable with...then there is nothing wrong with two adults having fun and enjoying spending time together.

If the younger person is "wasting" their time with an older person, there will come a time when he/she will sit and wonder where the hell all their time went.
Relationships should be taken a bit more seriously- Not just as "something to do " or "have fun with" for the time being.

well to be honest...i do find myself to be a bit more attracted to a women older than me...i'm not sure why

I've dated older, same age, younger. It was never about the age. If the site had no ages & no photos, we might be surprised at who we found ourselves most attracted to.

you JUST noticed? Ummm it's been a growing trend for probably 10 years ..

Cuz you relate with them .. you like their style, their confidence, they don't play games and they know what they want. That's a turn on to you. And thousands of other younger guys.

Same reason I date younger .. I like the mindset better.

To each his own. Some people don't care about age at all, others wanna stick in their own age group and others love dating younger or older.

It's definitely the confidence!

You'd know wouldn't ya babe? LOL

As to the OP .. here's a thread talking JUST about dating outside your age group .. and it's rolled 25 times. Gotta be somethin to it eh?

I'll take one please.

you should post in my thread chica .. how are you???

Howdy my dear, I would if I had time. But I'm doing great!! How are you?

i dont date out of my age range.
im 21. so 20 - 29.

Maybe that's what you need...maybe that's not what other people want. A relationship is a relationship...its up to the two people to make it work well. As an individual...I can look around for as long as I want. The whole process IMO is meant to sort through all the possibilites and make a decision at one point to commit to one person. Since learning about each person doesn't happen normally after one day or one week or one month...unfortunately relationships will end and others begin. You have your own road map...I have mine. I take all my relationships seriously...some more then others...some get disqualified due to complications that arise. No relationship is 100% perfect...but you can be certian that when i find one I deem is close enough...I'll be happy to commit.

I am sure it also has to do with youthful looks and younger aspirations as well. The younger guys are driven and motivated to succeed like the older guys once were. Like I said earlier...its not any different then older guys wanting younger ladies. It make them feel like a "Stud" again. There are plenty of younger ladies that love older guys. They offer a sense of maturity that younger guys don't have. I prefer older women because they are more stable and not as flakey as some of these young girls. They are more serious in mind set and and happy in their own skin. They have been though much more and have the maturity to be a grown up...unlike all the younger ladies who normally are no where near serious in mindset. I really dislike younger girls becasue they are all such flakes. They are flighty and immature. Most of them can' even carry a conversation.

Oh yeah...one more thing...the older ladies love the younger guys stamina BTW...Lets face it...theres a lot of guys in their 40 that have lost thier "go". They get set in their ways and turn into Mr. Simple. The older ladies just love the younger guys flexability and adaptabilty. The older guys just can't keep up with some of the more active ladies their age and the younger guys can deliver the goods. These older women just don't want to be slowed down anymore nowadays. They want the excitement that once had...and most of all...they want to have fun...expecially if they have gotten out of a divorce where they weren't happy...they are looking for something more then what they had before. Its pretty simple...

seems like older women are notice me more. Maybe its just me dont know.

I feel that a lot of hot girls between 18 and 22 will look like crap by the time they're 30.


However the good looking girls that are 30+ will stay good looking during their second half of life :)

It's so strange to see that this is considered an issue worthy of discussion. In a lot of cultures throughout human history, being in love with and/or marrying a person (male or female) much older than oneself was considered to be a savvy move.

The older person is already likely to have property, security, offspring from their youth; the younger partner therefore gets a headstart as an adult without the heavy responsibility, just as the love and care of his/her parents gave him a headstart as an infant. Once the older partner dies, the younger partner is already established with money, property, offspring, etc., and ready to help a younger person get his/her headstart as an adult.

The attraction of young people for older partners is not as unnatural as our current civilization supposes.

Western civilization is based on pioneering and expansion, and in it young females are viewed as a commodity to be used by dominant males, rather than valued partners. Children are a commodity in and of themselves, and for many years the emphasis has been on "quantity over quality".

Now that pioneering and expansion are over (at least until the next time the human population is reduced by half or more), females young and old can attempt to regain their status as members of regular society.

But of course I'm well aware that topics likes aren't really for discussion of this issue; it's just another opportunity for members to brag, carp, or whine about their personal likes and dislikes. ;)

Nevertheless, I hope it was helpful. yours in Chaos, Scarlett

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