I got this from another site.

A collegue emailed me this writing:

When an American man pitches woo to a foreign woman, it is a direct and bold statement that the man is not going to play the game that the American feminists so desperately want. A foreign woman is not (yet) burdened by the clash of expectations that American woman cannot cope with. A foreign woman typically has no problem with making a man happy because her culture tells her that a man’s happiness reflects well on her own success as a woman. Foreign women know that if they give love, they will receive love. They know that the unintended consequence of independence is loneliness.

The sad stereotype of the shrill, unfriendly, independent American career woman is becoming stronger and stronger. The equally repellent stereotype of the overwrought and unfriendly soccer mom shuttling her kids around while trying to keep her independence is also becoming part of our cultural landscape. The scowling American woman is all too common. It’s not men making her scowl. It’s her inability to see reality and choose appropriately that is making her scowl.

I am not angry with American women. I merely pity them. I pity them for embracing feminism without any critical thought. I pity them for making men the enemy and not loving partners. I pity them for their unsuccessful struggle with their own rules. I pity them for not understanding that life is about compromise and that compromise is not weakness.

When an American woman asks about my job, my car, my home I can only sigh in dismay. Men are not simply wallets to be looted. Nor are we all rapists and gorillas. We are complex and interesting humans who need respect and love, as do women. Pathetically, American women have been brainwashed into thinking that giving love and respecting men is somehow evil and wrong. No matter, American women can wallow in misery as much as they want. I will happily and respectfully court my Latin girlfriend and let independent and unfriendly American women enjoy their cats.


This is what i posted on that thread and wanted everyone to know i don't believe all this letter and what your about to read what i sais on that thread wasn't ment as to all of the younger generation.

Did any of you notice that almost all the women that made there comment were 40 and above?


I asked this because the world is run by the younger generation as far as this letter goes. The younger generation when it comes to women do not know how to cook a home cook meal or even appreciate doing that for a man. the simple thing that can actually make a man feel good among other thing that men do for women theses days. Now mind you. I know alot of men have problems so in one sence i blame them as well. The women in todays world as far as the younger generation goes. they expect to be taken out all the time, baught flowers, travel, etc etc. I bring this up because in the younger generation when it come to women. They expect the man to take care of her but do not really give anything back. This might seem rude and i do appologize for the women that don't understand this. But women that were brought up in the younger generation and from my experience think because they have something beteen there legs that that is all they need to give. I been with 30 women in my life time and not one of them has given as much as i have. And this is why i have never been in love with any women i been with and thats because i believe being in love is actually giving your intire being to the one your with. The women that are on this post may of been brought up in a time where they did take care of there men better then these days, but lack to pass it down...

uh-oh..

I pity the man that wrote this. JMO He is entitled to his opinion..I just dont' have to agree with it.

Most American women WANT to be respected and LOVED..we cherish the THOUGHT of it! WE have LOTS of love/respect to give to a man. If most women are angry it's because "some" men had ALL THE LOVE then threw it away for the "grass is greener" syndrome. (As I'm sure some women have also)

I have never asked a man about his money, job or his home..those things aren't important to me.. but being truly loved and respected is.

Is there a couch in here where I can hide when it flies?

He's entitled to his opinion, and good luck to him and his Latin girlfriend. Big mistake to think Latinas are docile and subservient

Wondering a man who takes time and thinks so negatively against American woman and pities them - what does he offer? Is he merely trying to self inflate his self esteem, his ego?

Morning Shadow

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYfM-frIWlQ&feature=related

I'm going to let this run for a bit to see what you ladies think and i will tell you why i posted and what i believe to be true these days as far as women go.

I couldn't agree more! Wow! I'm just bummed that guy is already taken.

It just got mighty cold in here. I think there's a storm a'brewin'.

slow1

Here we go, lumping all women into one catagory.

WRONG.

Same with lumping men. I feel genuine pity for the author, as I think he is being VERY closed minded. Agree with this, NEVER. Sure there are some cases where this can fit both women & MEN.
My opinion, this guy has an axe to grind, was hurt at sometime & now thinks Latin ladies are the answer. I respect HIS right to HIS opinion.

To me, TOTALLY WRONG.

I couldnt even make it through the first paragraph and wont even bother to finish it...

He sounds like a sexist who wants women to feel inferior so he can have his little submissive slaves as history has always been.

He's afraid of independant women because they will see through his shallow minded philosophy to the real man, if he could even be called a man.

Its an insult to men to have to include him in our gender, there should be a third gender created to lump people like him into.

I want an independant woman, period.

But to each their own I guess.

Hey Shadow my brother,
I know for a fact that you don't think this way, So I'm dyin' to know why you posted it.

G.

You're hot.

american women arent so bad considering i was once married to a unfaithful,irresponsable bi polar,manic,oxycotin addicted,lying,unmotherly to her child,"jewish princess" need i say more

lol,..me too,..

Why do you have to bring up our relationship in the forums?

This is what i posted and was seeing as the the age groop


Did any of you notice that almost all the women that made there comment were 40 and above?


I asked this because the world is run by the younger generation as far as this letter goes. The younger generation when it comes to women do not know how to cook a home cook meal or even appreciate doing that for a man. the simple thing that can actually make a man feel good among other thing that men do for women theses days. Now mind you. I know alot of men have problems so in one sence i blame them as well. The women in todays world as far as the younger generation goes. they expect to be taken out all the time, baught flowers, travel, etc etc. I bring this up because in the younger generation when it come to women. They expect the man to take care of her but do not really give anything back. This might seem rude and i do appologize for the women that don't understand this. But women that were brought up in the younger generation and from my experience think because they have something beteen there legs that that is all they need to give. I been with 30 women in my life time and not one of them has given as much as i have. And this is why i have never been in love with any women i been with and thats because i believe being in love is actually giving your intire being to the one your with. The women that are on this post may of been brought up in a time where they did take care of there men better then these days, but lack to pass it down...

i dont know,i just felt right at the time

Ruth,
You're a pisser!