Topic: Help me out please!!!
Redsoxfan1's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:59 PM
I have a little problem that is upsetting me greatly!sad Last nite I was talking to a friend of mine, and I must have said the wrong thing. He hung up on me!!frustrated I am so mad at myself over this. I e-mailed him a few apologies, no reply!! Every time I try to call to apologize, he knows its me with his caller ID. Should I just forget about him?? What do you all think?what Thanx!

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Wed 09/24/08 09:01 PM
I've gone through that with a friend to...finally left an email and leaving it up to them to answer...if not...guess it wasn't the friendship I thought it was, sadlyohwell

Jill298's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:02 PM
The more you call and email, the more bad you look. you tried to apologize. If he is going to act this way over something you said wrong... then how will he act in the future over something serious?? Let it go... maybe he will come back.

Scyphon's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:02 PM
Just have to be patient and see if they respond or call back. If not, its best to move on. Dont worry yourself and make a fool of yourselfby trying to get thru to them so much. If it is to be fixed, you did your part, now you have to let him do his.

Redsoxfan1's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:03 PM

The more you call and email, the more bad you look. you tried to apologize. If he is going to act this way over something you said wrong... then how will he act in the future over something serious?? Let it go... maybe he will come back.
I'll try, but this was what I thought was a good friend!!:heart: Thanx!

Redsoxfan1's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:04 PM

Just have to be patient and see if they respond or call back. If not, its best to move on. Dont worry yourself and make a fool of yourselfby trying to get thru to them so much. If it is to be fixed, you did your part, now you have to let him do his.
I'm trying, thanx!!

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Wed 09/24/08 09:04 PM
I say that you should give them a little time and a little space. You already made the first move trying to apologize. Let it marinate a bitm if in a few days they still refuse to accept your apology, then its time to start considering forgetting about them.

Scyphon's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:05 PM
Good luck with it, and whatever happens, I'm sure it's all for the best.flowerforyou

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Wed 09/24/08 09:06 PM

The more you call and email, the more bad you look. you tried to apologize. If he is going to act this way over something you said wrong... then how will he act in the future over something serious?? Let it go... maybe he will come back.
fully agree! The more you try, the more you appear as a begger. Leave him a message and leave it at that. You tried! You can only do what you can do!! Good luck!flowerforyou

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Wed 09/24/08 09:06 PM

I say that you should give them a little time and a little space. You already made the first move trying to apologize. Let it marinate a bitm if in a few days they still refuse to accept your apology, then its time to start considering forgetting about them.
Good advice, I'll try! Thanx!

Cinderella75's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:19 PM
Well, I would say give it some time.
You apologized, and so give it some time to have them accept ur apology efforts. Everyone handles things differently, so there is no telling on when that will happpen, but if he / she was a good friend then I would not worry too much about it, he/she will come along.

Roco's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:37 PM
This is what you do exactly..call him in 2 days.., leave a message like this..it has to be in your own words though....I called ..( or texed ) you a couple of times before and haven’t received any call back..well,.. this is going to be my last call to you..(name)

Roco

p.s. -- if its a girl..she'll text you shortly..if its a guy...he may call you back in about a month...don't say it if you don't mean it though..

Redsoxfan1's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:55 PM

This is what you do exactly..call him in 2 days.., leave a message like this..it has to be in your own words though....I called ..( or texed ) you a couple of times before and haven’t received any call back..well,.. this is going to be my last call to you..(name)

Roco

p.s. -- if its a girl..she'll text you shortly..if its a guy...he may call you back in about a month...don't say it if you don't mean it though..

I appreciate the advice, but he has no cell phone!! Only a home phone with caller ID, and no answering machine!! Very stone age!:heart:

carold's photo
Wed 10/22/08 08:41 PM

I have a little problem that is upsetting me greatly!sad Last nite I was talking to a friend of mine, and I must have said the wrong thing. He hung up on me!!frustrated I am so mad at myself over this. I e-mailed him a few apologies, no reply!! Every time I try to call to apologize, he knows its me with his caller ID. Should I just forget about him?? What do you all think?what Thanx!
You've apologized you've tried to call. What more can you do? Maybe the friend needs to get over it or isn't such a good friend.

CoffeeSonata's photo
Wed 10/22/08 09:06 PM
I have a little problem that is upsetting me greatly!sad Last nite I was talking to a friend of mine, and I must have said the wrong thing. He hung up on me!!frustrated I am so mad at myself over this. I e-mailed him a few apologies, no reply!! Every time I try to call to apologize, he knows its me with his caller ID. Should I just forget about him?? What do you all think?what Thanx!
Id let him cool off & if he contacts you ever then yay but if not then it wasent ment to be a life long freindship. Im speaking from experience on this one.

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Wed 10/22/08 09:07 PM
give him time try again tomorrow