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it seams that every where i turn a nice guy ends up being compleatly oppsite 
That's because the " nice guy " doesn't actually exist. You can find a guy that is a LOT less of an ass*ole than most, you could even find one that is sweet, considerate, kind and treats you absolutely fantastic, but he'll still wind up being an ass*ole at least a little bit of the time. At least this one's honest. 
LOL. I am the FIRST to admit that I can be a bit difficult to deal with at times. However, I am also one that will tell you that I treat the woman I am with as good as I possibly can, and be completely honest about that too. true, everyone has their times where they are not the greatest to be around...but to call a guy an as*hole because he is in a bad mood or something isn't right...women are the same way, and we don't call all of them b****es I'm not necessarily referring to having a " bad day ". Hell..everyone has bad days. I am referring more to the fact that people ( men and women ) can be difficult to deal with. Those times more often than not, last for more than a day or two at a time. Think about it this way...the women I have heard speak about their ex's mostly say " well...he was great about this, but a complete ass*ole about....." It can't be avoided. You WILL ( no matter how great a guy you are ) will be considered an ass*ole for SOMETHING at some point by the one you are with. sorry that jsut aint true the one I am with would never condider me an azzhole at any time,I make my love happy,so I have no worrys there. woman can be just as bad as men,neither need to be labled any thing,every one needs to do the steps to make things better not make them worse by doing petty little things like calling names |
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Sat 09/20/08 11:14 PM
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OC.....you ( I have no doubt ) make her happy now.
IF there ever came a day when you didn't, and IF things went badly from there...then you, too, would probably be called that. If not by LV ( I haven't talked to her much, so I wouldn't know if she would or not...lol ) then by friends or family members. I have NO DOUBT at all that you and she will continue to be happy. :-) I totally agree that neither men nor women SHOULD be labeled...but it's a fact of life that they are. |
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gotcha man...but women can be the same way...why are guys labeled as a**holes when they do the same things
that is all that i am saying....i do everything that i can to make my woman happy....that pi**es me off if i am ever called an a**hole for something stupid Usually it's because of nothing more than the lack of a better word. Keep in mind,...women think they are always right, even though we actually know better. They call us ass*oles for doing the same things they do because they don't think they are wrong when they do them. * Disclaimer * The above statement, in no way, is to be taken as an indictment of ALL women. |
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gotcha man...but women can be the same way...why are guys labeled as a**holes when they do the same things
that is all that i am saying....i do everything that i can to make my woman happy....that pi**es me off if i am ever called an a**hole for something stupid Usually it's because of nothing more than the lack of a better word. Keep in mind,...women think they are always right, even though we actually know better. They call us ass*oles for doing the same things they do because they don't think they are wrong when they do them. * Disclaimer * The above statement, in no way, is to be taken as an indictment of ALL women. ok I gotta agree with you there are to many woman who go under this. |
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Heh. Over the last....oh....20 years or so, I have had lots of time to think about stuff like this.
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Heh. Over the last....oh....20 years or so, I have had lots of time to think about stuff like this. I may be only 25 my friend but I know a lot more,seen a lot more then people may think,I just keep shut |
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I agree with Stewy we are here but most dont want us because the "bad boys" are more sought after these days.
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I agree with Stewy we are here but most dont want us because the "bad boys" are more sought after these days. i wonder if bad boys ever call themselves bad boys since so-called nice guys are always calling themselves nice.... |
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to the gay bars Guess you got lots of gay friends Nothing wrong with that 
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gotcha man...but women can be the same way...why are guys labeled as a**holes when they do the same things
that is all that i am saying....i do everything that i can to make my woman happy....that pi**es me off if i am ever called an a**hole for something stupid Usually it's because of nothing more than the lack of a better word. Keep in mind,...women think they are always right, even though we actually know better. They call us ass*oles for doing the same things they do because they don't think they are wrong when they do them. * Disclaimer * The above statement, in no way, is to be taken as an indictment of ALL women. good point |
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the good guys are around but they keep meeting all the bad females that cheat,lie and string men along. I just had a terrible encounter from a female liar , cheat and manipulator
My question is , is there any real honest genuine woman out there Stanley |
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Heh. Over the last....oh....20 years or so, I have had lots of time to think about stuff like this. I may be only 25 my friend but I know a lot more,seen a lot more then people may think,I just keep shut Well..keeping my mouth shut has never been my style. That is probably one of the biggest reasons I am single...lol |
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OC.....you ( I have no doubt ) make her happy now. IF there ever came a day when you didn't, and IF things went badly from there...then you, too, would probably be called that. If not by LV ( I haven't talked to her much, so I wouldn't know if she would or not...lol ) then by friends or family members. I have NO DOUBT at all that you and she will continue to be happy. :-) I totally agree that neither men nor women SHOULD be labeled...but it's a fact of life that they are.  Thank you for your kind words...
and yes, I am sure there will come a day when OC and I are really not seeing eye to eye on something... and things may even get heated... however, I respect him too much to ever attack or degrade who he is as a person. I may say something descriptive about his behavior... but no, I would not use words that would attack who he is. |
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OC.....you ( I have no doubt ) make her happy now. IF there ever came a day when you didn't, and IF things went badly from there...then you, too, would probably be called that. If not by LV ( I haven't talked to her much, so I wouldn't know if she would or not...lol ) then by friends or family members. I have NO DOUBT at all that you and she will continue to be happy. :-) I totally agree that neither men nor women SHOULD be labeled...but it's a fact of life that they are. Thank you for your kind words...
and yes, I am sure there will come a day when OC and I are really not seeing eye to eye on something... and things may even get heated... however, I respect him too much to ever attack or degrade who he is as a person. I may say something descriptive about his behavior... but no, I would not use words that would attack who he is. Fair enough, LV. Like I said, I have no doubt that you two will be very happy for a very long time.
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getting a little scary in here lol
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Wait where's the line, I'm signing up....lo
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getting a little scary in here lol We're not scary. Just misunderstood...lol |
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Wait where's the line, I'm signing up....lo The line forms to the right>>>>> |
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where have all the good guys gone? Gone to Kansas...everyone |
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where have all the good guys gone? For a beer and shot I am yours 
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