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Topic: Love?
Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 03:35 PM


lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sat 09/20/08 03:36 PM
Nah, it is what it is. I have a feeling that all of this is for a reason and when you least expect it you find passion and then love when you're not looking, or it's right in front of you.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 03:37 PM
Nah, it is what it is. I have a feeling that all of this is for a reason and when you least expect it you find passion and then love when you're not looking, or it's right in front of you. Very true, I think Im one of those people who just try too hard lol.

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Sat 09/20/08 03:38 PM
Those are my feelings about love.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 03:40 PM
Those are my feelings about love. Me too, mostly frustrated lol, but it can have ups and downs though which is why I want it still

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Sat 09/20/08 03:42 PM
yea its like a horrible addiction

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 03:42 PM
yea its like a horrible addiction An addiction that most people actually need too.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 09/20/08 03:45 PM
you really want to know what love is,well its..gonna hold my baby , gonna hold her tight gonna get me some afternoon delight...Ron Burgandy

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 09/20/08 03:46 PM
you really want to know what love is,well its..gonna hold my baby , gonna hold her tight gonna get me some afternoon delight...Ron Burgandy Sky rockets in flight

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 03:46 PM
you really want to know what love is,well its..gonna hold my baby , gonna hold her tight gonna get me some afternoon delight...Ron Burgandy Lol my mom used to play that song when I was A little kid, It still gets stuck in my head to this day.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sat 09/20/08 03:47 PM
2 words...Australian Shepherd

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 09/20/08 03:47 PM
you really want to know what love is,well its..gonna hold my baby , gonna hold her tight gonna get me some afternoon delight...Ron Burgandy Sky rockets in flight afternoon delight

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sat 09/20/08 03:47 PM
Except for us, the theme song could be "When I think about you, I touch myself"... and we really just make up a vision!!!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 09/20/08 03:48 PM
Except for us, the theme song could be "When I think about you, I touch myself"... and we really just make up a vision!!! lilith when i think about ME, i touch myself

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sat 09/20/08 03:49 PM
Except for us, the theme song could be "When I think about you, I touch myself"... and we really just make up a vision!!! lilith when i think about ME, i touch myself Why am I not surprised???

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 09/20/08 03:49 PM
Detachable Penis

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sat 09/20/08 03:49 PM
Except for us, the theme song could be "When I think about you, I touch myself"... and we really just make up a vision!!! lilith when i think about ME, i touch myself

wacky_yet_grounded Joined Sat 07/19/08 Posts: 2102	Sat 09/20/08 03:50 PM
sigh

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 03:50 PM
Except for us, the theme song could be "When I think about you, I touch myself"... and we really just make up a vision!!! lilith when i think about ME, i touch myself

Plainome Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 363	Sat 09/20/08 04:00 PM
Bah! WTF is this? 50/50 love and hate, not putting in the effort... blah blah blah! It's quite simple.... Remove the sepia out dated MOVIE of what you think love is, it got bad ratings, and was a flop! And try looking at how others love... the mother for her child... the doctor for her patient... the baker with his bread... the gardener with his plants... the farmer with his dog.... That's LOVE... unselfish, freely given, with absolutely NO EXPECTATION of it being reciprocated... Love is GIVING. and until you earn it, learn it and be it, you won't have a f*ckin clue what I am on about. I havent found anyone that is willing to give yet, someone who is willing to give as much as they receive is something thats rare in this world, not for a Mother and Child or something like that but between 2 people ,as In Husband and Wife, I know how to love someone ,but never got it in return though. Matt... your very simple statement said it all... you are looking for a person who will give to you... which means you are TAKING... no expectations... means just that... Love isn't a commodity... there is no marketing strategy that one can use, there is no public shares one can purchase.. Mostimes in life we bungle around completely oblivious to whom may love us... for simply being us... that is LOVE... a given, without a demand for receipt. Love is a give take situation, but I see what your saying though, I would gladly give my love to someone for nothing in return ,what I meant by that statement was, I would love someone ,I just want the same love and support in return. Otherwise, why be in a relationship to start with? I dont want anything Extrordinary out of anyone, just to know they care too, whcih I have never found. You asked what the definition of love was to "you"....... Love does not require an active "relationship" What you are looking for is romance, lust, desire, passion, etc. The list goes on........but those things do not make up "love". If it can be explained by any other definition it is not love, imo. I've posted this in a poetry thread, but it fits ur topic, and is the expression of what I think "love" is. It is something that you can have for a perfect stranger AND the one you share your bed with. It is not what makes you want to have sex with someone....... It is not what makes you want to spend the rest of your life with someone...... You can indeed love someone and never desire to talk to them again........anyhoo: True Love Written by: Plainome So close… Yet so far… Elusive to my touch. I want to reach out and take it To pull it to my chest… And never let go. Why can’t I grasp it? Why can’t I take hold? So fragile… Yet so strong. It drives grown men to their knees. Most would give anything To feel it just once… To have a glimpse. Why can’t I grasp it? Why can’t I take hold? What must I do? Where must I go? Who must I meet To make this dream a reality? Finally, it become clear… I can do nothing…. There is no where I can go… There is no one person I can meet. For it must start in me. True Love is something That in order to experience… Must be shared. One can not own it, It goes where it will. No one can grasp it, And lay claim. True love must be a gift… Given without care… Of whether it will come back… Of if it will return. Why can’t I grasp it? Why can’t I take hold? Why can’t I pull it into my chest And never let go? (Because if I did, it wouldn’t be love.)