women are no more righteous than man......
everyones situation is different....

Maybe I wasn't clear enough, He paid for it don't you think, He said he learned something from it, He said he is trying to do better,
Yes before I retired I remember quite well what it was like to work all the time and I was a single parent as well. I didn't get child support, but then again I didn't seek it, just my choice, the mom was a crack head and I didn't want anything from her. didn't need it, I can understand where you do and don't feel you shouldn't get it. It is hard enough for two people to make ends meet these days let alone one.
If one is ordered to pay child support and doesn't they will eventually have to pay the piper.

and I did say he paid for it, when one pays for a crime as adjudicated by a court and serves their time, they should be given a second chance, they did what was required for not doing what was required,

Just an idea here...but perhaps your opinions are not always appropriate to put down...such as this case here, he just got out of prison and here you are stabbing at his character all because of your "opinion". You made a screwed up choice, he made a screwed up choice...at least he is moving on with his...

Hello Ghost I remember when you left,, Nice to see you back,, Blessings to you for a better future for you and your Family

Well I do hope that all is well and things are looking up. Going to jail for that length of time I'm sure you had a lot of time to do some thinking. I do hope that your on the right road and things are looking up.

You know before one should be so ready to jump there are more then one reason why some don't pay child support. Yeah it takes two to make a child and it takes two to support them.

I have been there done that raised mine all by myself for 16 years with very little child support. But....anything can be done if we put our minds to it.

Yeah I have seen were child support was not paid due to the other parent was holding their rights out for even seeing the child so they figured if they could not see them why pay? Sure two wrongs do not make a right but it is not right for anyone to use their kids as pawns in the long run.

I think you are way out of line, and taking it out on the wrong person, Your beef is with your kids father, not with this man, you don't know his story.

PLUS, it's not always women who are the single providers. My boyfriend is a full time dad to his son. His son's mom is a POS, she doesn't even care if she sees her kid, let alone support him by sending child support.

MY bf doesn't complain though, his son is where he should be, away from her. He does it on his own, PLUS he pays child support for his daughter who is only with us on the weekends. Money is tight for us, but we do it. I cut out my second job ( which I was using to supplement our incomes for extra money to have fun) to be home with his son in the evenings and on the weekends so that he can work 7 days a week to support us.

But you know what, neither of us are bitter. I do it because I love him and his kids, and he does it because he knows he has to do whats right for them.

Yes, I've had to work 2 jobs and try to support my two sons after leaving an extremely abusive ex-husband, and taking nothing but our sanity, and no money, possessions. But, even though it was tough, I was able to do it, plus attend their activities, etc. Not saying it was easy, but I worked my butt off, we still had fun, and I didn't waste my energy being angry.
I'm sure that being in prison gave ghost some time to reflect, and I'm sure that he will now take care of his obligations to his kids.