So I just discovered that my closest friend stabbed me in the back regarding my last relationship. After a little research (cuz I'm a great PI lol) I discovered my friend since Highschool went behind my back and told my ex Ryan that I was cheating on him which lead him to breaking up with me suddenly. I know I expressed in one of my blogs that I was quite shocked at his sudden exit but now I know the reason. Doesn't say much for him to go believing my friends above me does it? Anyway, my super fantastic friend Rayna hooked him up with her friend Melissa and has been lying to me about everything! I feel so betrayed on top of just ugh SICK TO MY STOMACH! Who can you trust these days?? Anyone?

I am sorry that has happened to you....Sometimes even the best of friends can betray you and you feel this great loss...All you can do is learn from this and know in your heart what you have and have not done and feel good that the truth is out and you know who really counts in your life

Come out and i will find you a nice guy

That is why I tend to have more guy friends instead.

Women will stab you in the back and come back wondering if they knife went in deep enough and if not push it some more and give it a twist.

A guy when mad at you will get over it come back and totally forget all about it and the friendship resumes back where it was before.

Yeah and I'm a woman I do pick my women friends very carefully. What they will do to another woman they will do to you later so always be careful of the ones you pick as a friend.


Truth is if he left like that and did not confront you he was going to leave anyway and just needed the slightest excuse!!

friends and family can sometimes be the most hurtful

hahaha! Hey I might just do that! Well I can for sure say that I have been learning ALOT lately! :)

all i can say is always be wary, no telling when true colors shall reveal.

Totally been there. I can't honestly tell you anything to take any of the pain away. It flippin hurts and you just gotta walk through that fire. The only good news I have for you is that you are much more enlightened now than you were before you found any of this out. Can you imagine if you had gone another 10 or 20 years with these people in your life? Let yourself feel that pain, then tell yourself it's done....and move on.

This is true. I think he was looking for a reason and knowing all I know about him now on the outside of the relationship I see that he did me a favor. I am VERY shocked at what my friend did to me though. We have known eachother a looooong time. On a positive note, I am thankful that I am being shown who has to go and who should stay. :)

Oh that can be true but as of now I am sooo thankful for my little guy and my parents. The are a wonderful support system. My sister in Alaska however can be every bit of hurtful with that big mouth of hers! lol

It's unfortunate that you can't trust your friend... She is a snake but not all females are that way.. Some are really truly friends and will help their friends and be there for their friends and never, ever, ever betray their friends... And some do not have ethics... Be careful but don't let it sour you on friends but perhaps make you leary if they do things that bring up red flags.. I'm that way but only if I see something that shoots up red flags, normally I would think I could trust my friends b/c if someone is unethical you "usually" find out right away by their actions before you befriend them...

good luck!

Thank you. :) Sounds good to me. I had a feeling in my gut that something wasn't right. When that anxiety grabs hold there is nothing stopping me from finding truth which I did. I am a firm believer in the "go with your gut instinct" often times its correct! Kinda nasty but right on anyway!lol!