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Why is it that if you are a good guy and treat women right they leave you to go back to their ex's even after being treated like ****? I took a look at my past three relationships and all three have that same thing in common. My wife left to go back to abuse after 3 years of marriage, next went back to ex and due to get married even after he hit her, and last is going back to ex after he kicked her out 3 weeks before they was going to be married. All three have said the same thing,"you are a good guy and any woman would be lucky to have you." If that's the case then why do good guys always finish last?
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because you suck in bed.
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it's called free will- people will be with who they want, doesn't matter if it's a so-called "nice guy" or a "jacka$$". keep looking, i'm sure you'll find someone who's right for you
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Edited by
RKISIT
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Fri 09/19/08 11:23 AM
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after all the threads i've seen on here about this im beginning to think that nice guys need to look at themselves instead of just blaming the women
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because you suck in bed. |
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after all the threads i've seen on here about this im beginning to think that nice guys need to look at themselves instead of just blamming the women well, what bothers me is, most guys who consider themselves "nice" are as big a jerk as the ones they're bashing. but that's just been my experiences. |
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because there always stopping to help the damsel in distress
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after all the threads i've seen on here about this im beginning to think that nice guys need to look at themselves instead of just blamming the women Gee you think, since the common denominator is THEM, and the women come and go.... But yet THEY stay the same... I'm over this...**where's the "bird" emoticon?** |
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because there always stopping to help the damsel in distress Exactly they take home the broken bikes and wonder why they have to fix them.... |
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YAY....another "Good guy" thread! Woot!
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i like women that "suck" in bed....or in the kitchen.....or driving on the freeway....but that's just me
because you suck in bed. |
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just start being mean its the way to go
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Edited by
Unknow
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Fri 09/19/08 11:28 AM
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Human women appreciate good guys that finish last or even better at the same time that they do...
Ack ack ack ack |
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now i kno im not alone whoo hoo
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Likewise, why do good women finish last? I think that it is basic. Good people are taken advantage of all the time. Goodness is seen as a weakness. Good people tend to judge others by ourselves.. and in so doing, get hurt. The "good" people need to be more careful, and realize that we cannot judge others by ourselves. I don't agree that good guys are not good in bed... but, then, what do I know... Not entirely sure that I have known one. Also, the bad guys are not always good in bed.
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i like women that "suck" in bed....or in the kitchen.....or driving on the freeway....but that's just me because you suck in bed. on the freeway might be a little risky though... |
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Edited by
FearandLoathing
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Fri 09/19/08 11:27 AM
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Why do teh womenz hate teh nice guyz?!?
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I don't blame anyone. Myself or them, fact is that one of my ex's is now my best friend. But I have never had any negative feed back from any of my ex's. Matter of fact if I was so bad then I don't think that my ex wife would of given me custody of my son. My problem is understanding why someone, man/woman, would leave a stable loving relationship to go back into an abusive situation.
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Christ people lets lay this to rest quick...
You chose broken people because you yourself are broken. Fix you and you will attract a better class of people... |
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after all the threads i've seen on here about this im beginning to think that nice guys need to look at themselves instead of just blamming the women well, what bothers me is, most guys who consider themselves "nice" are as big a jerk as the ones they're bashing. but that's just been my experiences. |
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