So my brother and his ex split up about a year ago officially now. They were never married but lived together for years and have an 8 year lil girl. She (the ex) has been part of our family for all this time. Now that they are split up, she's just gone crazy! My brother is dating someone new ( has been for a while) and his ex is stalking them. She flips out over their stuff on "myspace" so they deleted their accounts. She even keyed up his new girlfriend's car.
My brother moved back into my parents house... and his new gf spent the night the other night... his ex was sitting outside my parents house before 7am, hiding down the street waiting for them to leave. As soon as his new gf left for work in the morning, she calls him on the phone, screaming at him about how he's "moved her into his parents house now" which is just not true.
She started refusing to let him see his daughter as long as he's with her. She won't let him come pick up his very large star wars collection at their house because he "abandoned it" which is also simply not true. And if he does get to see his daughter, he not allowed to bring his new gf around.
This chick has just gone nuts. It's so upsetting that she spent so much time being a part of our family and now is acting so crazy towards us. She's holding her daughter ( my neice) away. She tells their daughter that "daddy doesn't want to see you bc he's with his new gf"

can you say "psycho"....thats too bad for all involved. Your brother needs to get a restraining order and fight to see his daughter.. Maybe your parents can call her and make her realize the damage she is doing. thats the best way for her to push herself right out of all your lives.. i hope it gets better..

the sadness is for the little girl, and somebody has to say it, you need to be the strong Aunt. because you can. you have the right.

atleast thats what billy and the boys would do.

the 8 year old is of primary concern....get the grands involved immediately.....or you!!!

a woman going crazy.....who would have known??????......



jk

Hope that if she's acting that irrationally, someone is making sure that little girl is okay.

he has legal rights call the cops about the stalking, keep track of it, and get a lawyer and make a custody arrangment, ohhhh and the cops will help get his starwars stuff

yea, network t.v. is bad enough, and a maniac parent to boot. you got to be kiddin

see, people dont know how much energy they really have. not to let out all the secrets, but we're loveing creatures, and when we start the tornado of love, well, if you hate, we're comeing strong and we dont care.

Jill, She sounds angry and powerless and very much feeling rejected. It is easier to be angry than anything else and I'm sure she just is desperate. How she is acting is horrible....

I strongly suggest that your brother immediately file court papers for visitation rights and request psychological evaluations, and a guardian ad litem for your niece.

just walk up to her. and tell her. point blank. cut and dry
does not take a college grad to finger it out

others will give you the scientific advice, i just wanted to give you the feel. the heartbeat. get your ass into the game and sink the shot. you have it.

Mods help us out, please please!! We need you....

time to kneecap the psycho you want some help?
i have a hammer
im sick of people who act like this i have an ex that is doing the same thing to me thank god she doesnt know were the girls i see as friends are.
wow.

The thing is, I never would have expected this from here. It caught us all totally of guard. I still want her to be civil. I want her to accept the fact that yes, my brother screwed up but it didn't take just him to break up the relationship. I want her to STOP punishing their daughter. I want her to quit stalking and acting like a crazy person.

But Jill, she is overpowered by her anger and helplessness. It is making her irrational.

My sister and her 5th husband have shot guns at each other when they were arguing.

id try to talk to her calmly and friendly first.... ask her what is she doing? yes it is insane i dont dissagree but maybe she just needs someone to talk to and give a big cry for her hurt.... before she ends up hurting her daughter <and tell her that> nicely though..... maybe she will realize how rediculas she is being and stop.... afterall some of the things she is doing she can go to jail... and then who will take care of her daughter? the new girlfriend and the dad? maybe that will put a stop to it....best of luck

I've been overpowered by anger and helplessness and I never did anything like that. I understand she's very hurt and angry. I even sympathize with it. I do understand, I've been there. But she's not doing anyone any good by acting this way.

Yes, but you are a mature lady who doesn't act like a kid with vengeance and a license. She is too pissed off to see the bigger picture.