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Topic: YA I MET..........
itsmetina's photo
Wed 09/17/08 12:55 AM
you just take a chance when you open your heart

Marie55's photo
Wed 09/17/08 01:11 AM
That is the scary part, I don't know if I can open up my heart anymore. I put a wall around it years ago, then let that one guy in and got hurt again, and again.

Now this new guy is saying all the right things, that is scary in itself. But he is telling me the bad parts of him too, so I think he is being honest. He keeps asking me to tell him I have feelings for him - I just can't, I don't know that I do, guess I am too scared to let myself feel anything, afraid of getting stomped on again. That really scares me, maybe I am just dead inside anymore. I really don't know. brokenheart

TheShadow's photo
Wed 09/17/08 01:39 AM

That is the scary part, I don't know if I can open up my heart anymore. I put a wall around it years ago, then let that one guy in and got hurt again, and again.

Now this new guy is saying all the right things, that is scary in itself. But he is telling me the bad parts of him too, so I think he is being honest. He keeps asking me to tell him I have feelings for him - I just can't, I don't know that I do, guess I am too scared to let myself feel anything, afraid of getting stomped on again. That really scares me, maybe I am just dead inside anymore. I really don't know. brokenheart


"He keeps asking me to tell him I have feelings for him"


Um, that is something that comes from you and if somone is being pushy. I would worry about that. The only thing you need to do is, go at your pace. Anyone wanting to move faster then that. I would tell them straigh tup whats up! Yeah, he may be saying all the right things and i hate to say this and i know you know this. This is the net and anything goes. Take your time and let him know you want to do that and if he really give a bean. he will be willing to work with you at your pace.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Wed 09/17/08 01:45 AM

I WOULD LIKE SOMEONE TO WANT ME FOR WHO I AM ... NOT FOR MY LOOKS OR FIGHTIN SKILLS..
I luv ya for who u are Babe! Cause I know the real you! :heart: drinker :heart:

bad_girl's photo
Wed 09/17/08 04:13 AM
Sorry to hear this:cry:

PRINCE CHARMING! THE ONES WHO TELL YA WHAT U WANNA HEAR........AND HE'S A F***** LIAR! frustrated frustrated

awolf1010's photo
Wed 09/17/08 04:20 AM
Im sorry your having bad luck......
not all the guys are players, but they do exist.
you need to ask yourself though
" how do I keep attracting them?" only you can break that cycle. imo your actions determine your fate.

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Wed 09/17/08 04:25 AM


I WOULD LIKE SOMEONE TO WANT ME FOR WHO I AM ... NOT FOR MY LOOKS OR FIGHTIN SKILLS..
I luv ya for who u are Babe! Cause I know the real you! :heart: drinker :heart:


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Hella yeahah!!!
can't wait to see ya girl!!
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Fade2Black's photo
Wed 09/17/08 04:40 AM

I think the answer really lies within ourselves.. If we are careful and don't let their BS trick us then we won't get hurt by the bad one's.. There are really true and beautiful men on here and elsewhere, it's too bad that jerk man and women mess with the reputations of the good one's....



true be that (( Joy ))

itsmetina's photo
Wed 09/17/08 08:46 AM

That is the scary part, I don't know if I can open up my heart anymore. I put a wall around it years ago, then let that one guy in and got hurt again, and again.

Now this new guy is saying all the right things, that is scary in itself. But he is telling me the bad parts of him too, so I think he is being honest. He keeps asking me to tell him I have feelings for him - I just can't, I don't know that I do, guess I am too scared to let myself feel anything, afraid of getting stomped on again. That really scares me, maybe I am just dead inside anymore. I really don't know. brokenheart
take more time.I would tell the guy that you need to keep things on a friend level until you get to know him betterflowerforyou

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Wed 09/17/08 10:02 AM
Thnks eVeryone! You guys are AWSOME! :heart: :heart: drinker drinker :heart:

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 09/17/08 10:02 AM
Always an ass to ruin it for the rest of us...

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