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Topic: If you knew
itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/12/08 05:04 PM
a relationship wouldn't last but 10 yrs but it would be a blissful 10 yrs would you still want to go through with it?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 09/12/08 05:05 PM


Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 09/12/08 05:06 PM
10 wonderful years. Sure.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Fri 09/12/08 05:06 PM
Yep...better than not knowing and having a crappy 20 year relationship.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 09/12/08 05:07 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Fri 09/12/08 05:08 PM
10yrs...like with Jenna Jamison??? HELL YEAH!!!

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/12/08 05:08 PM
10yrs...like with Jenna Jamison??? HELL YEAH!!! no one mentioned jenna

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Fri 09/12/08 05:09 PM
Nope can't say I would... Why settle? I'll take it all or nothing...

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 09/12/08 05:10 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. You never know. Those 10 years could have been the rest of your life. You may get killed in a car accident. You may fall down a flight of stairs. You may get sick. To know you were going to have 10 wonderful years, that is totally worth it. You never know what else is going to happen.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Fri 09/12/08 05:10 PM
yes

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 09/12/08 05:12 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. You never know. Those 10 years could have been the rest of your life. You may get killed in a car accident. You may fall down a flight of stairs. You may get sick. To know you were going to have 10 wonderful years, that is totally worth it. You never know what else is going to happen. I can have 10 wonderful years with family an friends, don't need a guy to make it wonderful

phirequest Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 197	Fri 09/12/08 05:13 PM
DAMN STRAIGHT

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Fri 09/12/08 05:14 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. I can see your point...you are still young and have a wonderful life ahead of you and I hope you do see your dreams come true...but when you get o be my age....10 years of bliss would make up for all the crap JMO

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Fri 09/12/08 05:14 PM
a relationship wouldn't last but 10 yrs but it would be a blissful 10 yrs would you still want to go through with it? All the ones I had, I expected more than ten years out of. Not one has lasted that long. A blissful 10 years would be a dream come true.

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Fri 09/12/08 05:15 PM
I'm usually on the five year plan...

jimmy99005 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 5815	Fri 09/12/08 05:16 PM Edited by jimmy99005 on Fri 09/12/08 05:17 PM
How does it go "Its better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all"

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 09/12/08 05:16 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. You never know. Those 10 years could have been the rest of your life. You may get killed in a car accident. You may fall down a flight of stairs. You may get sick. To know you were going to have 10 wonderful years, that is totally worth it. You never know what else is going to happen. I can have 10 wonderful years with family an friends, don't need a guy to make it wonderful True, but there are some things that are just different with a someone special that you really don't want to do with family or friends...... In the first case, it is just sick. In the second case, it can ruin friendships.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 09/12/08 05:16 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. I can see your point...you are still young and have a wonderful life ahead of you and I hope you do see your dreams come true...but when you get o be my age....10 years of bliss would make up for all the crap JMO I can understand older people would jump at that but I dont wanna wait 10years with someone an not get married.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 09/12/08 05:18 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. You never know. Those 10 years could have been the rest of your life. You may get killed in a car accident. You may fall down a flight of stairs. You may get sick. To know you were going to have 10 wonderful years, that is totally worth it. You never know what else is going to happen. I can have 10 wonderful years with family an friends, don't need a guy to make it wonderful True, but there are some things that are just different with a someone special that you really don't want to do with family or friends...... In the first case, it is just sick. In the second case, it can ruin friendships. true but thats why man made toys

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/12/08 05:18 PM
I would I want to start now