I have always wondered why some people take pride n mocking others? And especially starting a friendship,only to make a chat date wth someone just to become silent,never show up,and never have the decency to be honest and explain that they are not really interested in the first place?
It takes a more mature person to tell someone and get it over with then it is to just be silent.That is known as the cowards way out and how can anyone have respect for someone like this?
I dont expect an answer on this one,just wondering is all.




Have a great night and Thankyou for reading!

b.c some people are immature and heartless

well people ****ing suck. plain as that. id love ot roll all the assholes of the world up in a carpet and light it on fire. welcome to the human race,lol

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uMMM.... SO YOU ARE PRETTY HURT HUH?
wELL NO OFFENCE , BUT YOU KNOW LIFE SUCKS AND WE LEARN FROM BOTH GOOD AND BAD .

Good luck yo ya though!
Sounds to me like ya just have to get over it .
JMO

that about sums it up

theres always going to be people like that people will always be mean to someone,peopl dont like me b,c im a fat kid and well thats there problem dont let the losers of the world bring you down its too annoying and exhausting!keep your head up

Mocking is one of the first signs of insecurity IMO.

in men, small package size is the reason most of the time, women not to sure.

What the hell is a chat date? Not trying to mock you but never heard of that.

I'm guessing you asked someone to be online at a certain time and they couldn't make it. Is that out of rudeness? Maybe they don't attach that much importance to the event. Find out and don't get so pissy, people do have other things in life going on. Show them you are a good matured person....if you are.

I can ASS-URE you I am a mature man.She was online afterwards and never took the time to apologize for leaving me hanging.Doesnt take that long to send an apology to someone for being rude to them,or even being honest wth them even f they really dont like you!
Think about THAT!

I think the thing is we have to stop and look at why we get upset about something.. I've found if I get upset it means I care.. About that person, about how they've treated me... What I've learned is to not give a worry to something I don't actually have a relationship invested in.. Online, people can be finicky and fickle and their flavor today may not be their flavor tomorrow.. doesn't make them bad people just means they weren't as emotionally invested as the person who got upset...

You mean people actually take this seriously? WOW In retrospect she could have apologized, I mean how hard is it to type an email?

I don't think as many take it as seriously as some would like...

I would fly into a violent rage if someone did that to me

Mean people suck, no matter how hard we try it's natural to care & get our feelers hurt.

Send her a thank you note for not wasting your time.
She probably isn't who she says she is...

Thanks for the advice,very wise!