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Edited by
TheShadow
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Wed 09/10/08 08:09 AM
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An on going topic
Ok, i just got an email from somone on another site asking for a friends request. In the request they asked if i was afraid of cheaters and if i wanted to know more add them. My question is. Why worry about something that hasn't happen yet? but the thing is alot people do and stress themselves out to the point of not taking any chances in life. If it's going to happen it's going to happen and there is not a damn thing you can do about it other then leave them. So what the point of worrying about something that hasn't happen yet? 
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It's genetic.
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Edited by
FreeToB
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Wed 09/10/08 08:13 AM
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Not sure what you are asking but I'll say this. If one will cheat on one with you, she/he will cheat on you with another. Dishonesty is the root of cheating and thats an incurable disease.
As far as worrying goes, it does no good to worry, only harm. I'm too old to be stressed out about anything. Besides, I apparently have my own angels that take care of me no matter how bad I screw up. So..no worries. |
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Some people just worry about things, it's in their nature. Sometimes it not that easy to leave, you get tooo caught up in the emotions of it all. Things happen that you have no conrol over, it just is.....
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Some people just worry about things, it's in their nature. Yep, find them in the intensive care unit getting that heart attack taken care of. |
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Some people just worry about things, it's in their nature. Sometimes it not that easy to leave, you get tooo caught up in the emotions of it all. Things happen that you have no conrol over, it just is..... Yeah i guess some people get caught up in a pattern and don't know how to get out of it. I never been there and will not allow myself to worry about something that i have no control over. I'm going to chat with this person and see what they'er point is. it's like he is advertiesing so will see what will happen. |
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Not sure what you are asking but I'll say this. If one will cheat on one with you, she/he will cheat on you with another. Dishonesty is the root of cheating and thats an incurable disease. As far as worrying goes, it does no good to worry, only harm. I'm too old to be stressed out about anything. Besides, I apparently have my own angels that take care of me no matter how bad I screw up. So..no worries. I was wondering what your guys opinion is about people that worry abouth things like this that hasn't happen yet or that you have no control over if it happens. whats the point of driving yourself nuts? |
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An on going topic
Ok, i just got an email from somone on another site asking for a friends request. In the request they asked if i was afraid of cheaters and if i wanted to know more add them. My question is. Why worry about something that hasn't happen yet? but the thing is alot people do and stress themselves out to the point of not taking any chances in life. If it's going to happen it's going to happen and there is not a damn thing you can do about it other then leave them. So what the point of worrying about something that hasn't happen yet?
totally agree babe .. One of my fav sayings in life: "TODAY is the TOMORROW you worried about YESTERDAY. Was it worth it?" (my answer would always have to be .. NO WAY  )
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Studies: Women Genetically Programmed to Cheat
Two New Studies Find Women More Likely to Cheat During Ovulation Jan. 4, 2006 Two new studies find that women may be genetically predisposed to cheating on their partners. One study published today by the University of California, Los Angeles Center on Behavior, Culture, and Evolution and the University of New Mexico says women have evolved to cheat on their mates during the most fertile part of their cycle. |
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Not sure what you are asking but I'll say this. If one will cheat on one with you, she/he will cheat on you with another. Dishonesty is the root of cheating and thats an incurable disease. As far as worrying goes, it does no good to worry, only harm. I'm too old to be stressed out about anything. Besides, I apparently have my own angels that take care of me no matter how bad I screw up. So..no worries. I was wondering what your guys opinion is about people that worry abouth things like this that hasn't happen yet or that you have no control over if it happens. whats the point of driving yourself nuts? Well, I used to be a "what if" person, always what-iffing myself to death. Life happens and my perspective changed. Now, I only worry about things that (a) I have control over, and (b) things that have already happened. Makes life a whole lot simpler and I'm a much happier, healthier person. As to why, I don't know why I was like that. But, my mom was too, maybe it's a learned behavior. |
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Humm have you ever thought the only reason one would say that is due to they are a cheater. And know they will cheat again. SHshs I would stay away from one that starts off in a e-mail that way.
Your setting yourself up Baby Boy!! 
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I was wondering what your guys opinion is about people that worry abouth things like this that hasn't happen yet or that you have no control over if it happens. ... My opinion of people that worry too much is probably no different from that of people that do not. I love people. I just hate it that they worry themselves. I would not call being oblivious to an apparent proclivity to cheating on the part of one's spouse healthy either.I would imagine that, in that case, if you did not address it and settle it with her and yourself, you'd have to be worrying. |
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Humm have you ever thought the only reason one would say that is due to they are a cheater. And know they will cheat again. SHshs I would stay away from one that starts off in a e-mail that way. Your setting yourself up Baby Boy!!
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Studies: Women Genetically Programmed to Cheat Two New Studies Find Women More Likely to Cheat During Ovulation Jan. 4, 2006 Two new studies find that women may be genetically predisposed to cheating on their partners. One study published today by the University of California, Los Angeles Center on Behavior, Culture, and Evolution and the University of New Mexico says women have evolved to cheat on their mates during the most fertile part of their cycle. Hahahah well I'm not in that study for I'm totally against anyone that cheats men or women. Until you have had it done to you some will never understand how much it hurts. Not worth it they should learn to walk away before partaking of another. JMO 
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One study published today by the University of California, Los Angeles Center on Behavior, Culture, and Evolution and the University of New Mexico says women have evolved to cheat on their mates during the most fertile part of their cycle. I don't know about any research on the subject but I do know this. When a woman gets the itch, you better scratch it or she'll find someone that will. lol |
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Humm have you ever thought the only reason one would say that is due to they are a cheater. And know they will cheat again. SHshs I would stay away from one that starts off in a e-mail that way. Your setting yourself up Baby Boy!!
I also agree. |
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The best 'un-worry' method that I've found is to forgive everything...in advance. (Stuff still hurts.)
I pay it forward rather than having to deal with unforgiveness. It's a lighter load to bear.
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The best 'un-worry' method that I've found is to forgive everything...in advance. (Stuff still hurts.)
I pay it forward rather than having to deal with unforgiveness. It's a lighter load to bear.
I totally agree with this...but you don't sound much like a scoundrel. lol |
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Dishonesty is the root of cheating and thats an incurable disease.
I agree with this 100%. Once a cheater always a cheater. |
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One study published today by the University of California, Los Angeles Center on Behavior, Culture, and Evolution and the University of New Mexico says women have evolved to cheat on their mates during the most fertile part of their cycle. I don't know about any research on the subject but I do know this. When a woman gets the itch, you better scratch it or she'll find someone that will. lol What about men that needs to be scratched, and there wives that have NO nails? |
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