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franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 09/09/08 10:59 AM
dont give a chance to nag - keep her in the bedroom problem solved ty fran,but i have to work you know,and take care of my son yes you do, just couldnt hold that remark back... it just jumped out. sorry

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 09/09/08 11:01 AM
dont give a chance to nag - keep her in the bedroom problem solved ty fran,but i have to work you know,and take care of my son yes you do, just couldnt hold that remark back... it just jumped out. sorry its all good,but it was funny as hell though

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 09/09/08 11:02 AM
Um, are you sure the sports interests and being laid back aren't translating into seeming not interested in her? Can you give us some examples?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 09/09/08 11:06 AM
Um, are you sure the sports interests and being laid back aren't translating into seeming not interested in her? Can you give us some examples? i dont ignore her when footballs on, she i think is just one who needs to much attention and of course she wasnt like that before,she pouts when i watch sports or just lounging around and when i dont feel like going out.stuff like that

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Tue 09/09/08 11:09 AM
maybe try a date night, one night a week you go out and do something together. It helped my save my friends marriage, she use to complain about the same things.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 09/09/08 11:10 AM
Ahhhh, she is acting like a brat. Tell her to cut it out or walk. Everything is not about her. Doesn't she have girlfriends she can call? If you don't feel like going out can't she stay in once in awhile and have fun that way? She wasn't like that before because it was peaches and cream and butterflies. Now she is herself, sorry to say. Call her out, bring it to her attention, and give her a chance to wake up and smell the coffee. If she doesn't, I say find a real woman. But give her the chance...

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 09/09/08 11:12 AM
Either that or he is set on a routine which do not include her. Please tell me you are not hooked onto the tv set while at home lounging. Before you did things together now all she does is watch you watch sports and relax... would bother me too.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 09/09/08 11:18 AM
OHHH Fran I see that too, see there are so three sides to every story. Sit down and figure out what her beef is, for real.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 09/09/08 11:18 AM
Either that or he is set on a routine which do not include her. Please tell me you are not hooked onto the tv set while at home lounging. Before you did things together now all she does is watch you watch sports and relax... would bother me too. im not hooked on tv,no way.its just she wants all my attention on her,period. for example i was on the phone talking to a sub contractor and she started tapping her foot ,had this ,get off the phone look,i dont know im kicking her to the curb.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Tue 09/09/08 11:19 AM
question,what a shocker coming from me,anyway im having an issue with the woman im seeing,i told her everything about me she accepted it now she's b!tching about it,i like sports, im really laid back, and yada yada yada. we talk but it seems like im trying to squeeze blood from a turnip, should i kick her to the curb cause i hate drama? Just slap her around a little bit. I'M KIDDING!!!

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 09/09/08 11:20 AM
Either that or he is set on a routine which do not include her. Please tell me you are not hooked onto the tv set while at home lounging. Before you did things together now all she does is watch you watch sports and relax... would bother me too. im not hooked on tv,no way.its just she wants all my attention on her,period. for example i was on the phone talking to a sub contractor and she started tapping her foot ,had this ,get off the phone look,i dont know im kicking her to the curb. then if thats how she's truly behaving - thats childish... I'd send her to her room then

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 09/09/08 11:21 AM
question,what a shocker coming from me,anyway im having an issue with the woman im seeing,i told her everything about me she accepted it now she's b!tching about it,i like sports, im really laid back, and yada yada yada. we talk but it seems like im trying to squeeze blood from a turnip, should i kick her to the curb cause i hate drama? Just slap her around a little bit. I'M KIDDING!!! I tried to bring that up, told him to keep her in the bedroom, but he has to work and mind his son. (sorry climbing outta gutta yet again)

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Tue 09/09/08 11:23 AM
question,what a shocker coming from me,anyway im having an issue with the woman im seeing,i told her everything about me she accepted it now she's b!tching about it,i like sports, im really laid back, and yada yada yada. we talk but it seems like im trying to squeeze blood from a turnip, should i kick her to the curb cause i hate drama? Well correct me if Im wrong but from what you have described here, it sounds like she is not really interested in you? It seems like she is more than likely going to be the one to end it if she has not already. Unless I misread what you said. It sounds like she decided to initially give the relationship a shot but then later found your personalities to be incompatible and its a deal breaker for her...

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 09/09/08 11:23 AM
question,what a shocker coming from me,anyway im having an issue with the woman im seeing,i told her everything about me she accepted it now she's b!tching about it,i like sports, im really laid back, and yada yada yada. we talk but it seems like im trying to squeeze blood from a turnip, should i kick her to the curb cause i hate drama? Just slap her around a little bit. I'M KIDDING!!!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 09/09/08 11:25 AM
Either that or he is set on a routine which do not include her. Please tell me you are not hooked onto the tv set while at home lounging. Before you did things together now all she does is watch you watch sports and relax... would bother me too. im not hooked on tv,no way.its just she wants all my attention on her,period. for example i was on the phone talking to a sub contractor and she started tapping her foot ,had this ,get off the phone look,i dont know im kicking her to the curb. then if thats how she's truly behaving - thats childish... I'd send her to her room then hint hint

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Tue 09/09/08 11:26 AM
im not hooked on tv,no way.its just she wants all my attention on her,period. for example i was on the phone talking to a sub contractor and she started tapping her foot ,had this ,get off the phone look,i dont know im kicking her to the curb. of course your not hooked on tv, your hooked on mingle2. was she tapping her foot as you were typing that post with the 'get off mingle2' look?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 09/09/08 11:27 AM
question,what a shocker coming from me,anyway im having an issue with the woman im seeing,i told her everything about me she accepted it now she's b!tching about it,i like sports, im really laid back, and yada yada yada. we talk but it seems like im trying to squeeze blood from a turnip, should i kick her to the curb cause i hate drama? Well correct me if Im wrong but from what you have described here, it sounds like she is not really interested in you? It seems like she is more than likely going to be the one to end it if she has not already. Unless I misread what you said. It sounds like she decided to initially give the relationship a shot but then later found your personalities to be incompatible and its a deal breaker for her... you know i have to agree,maybe she'll send me the dear john letter or email or text or phone call,seriously someone else mentioned that on here too.maybe thats what it is

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Tue 09/09/08 11:28 AM
im not hooked on tv,no way.its just she wants all my attention on her,period. for example i was on the phone talking to a sub contractor and she started tapping her foot ,had this ,get off the phone look,i dont know im kicking her to the curb. She wants all your attention on her period??? Some kind of fetish???? Well, then you should have about 24 more days a month to yourself.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Tue 09/09/08 11:30 AM
sounds like she has some control issues that she needs to work on

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Tue 09/09/08 11:30 AM
question,what a shocker coming from me,anyway im having an issue with the woman im seeing,i told her everything about me she accepted it now she's b!tching about it,i like sports, im really laid back, and yada yada yada. we talk but it seems like im trying to squeeze blood from a turnip, should i kick her to the curb cause i hate drama? Well correct me if Im wrong but from what you have described here, it sounds like she is not really interested in you? It seems like she is more than likely going to be the one to end it if she has not already. Unless I misread what you said. It sounds like she decided to initially give the relationship a shot but then later found your personalities to be incompatible and its a deal breaker for her... you know i have to agree,maybe she'll send me the dear john letter or email or text or phone call,seriously someone else mentioned that on here too.maybe thats what it is Well I mean you are somewhat vague here in your description of what is going on exactly but thats the vibe Im getting.