Topic: weekends that end in a four letter word
VladTheInhailer's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:17 PM
ok so i had a good weekend. i got home from a 2800 mile trip over the week, this chick i met before i left was there waiting for me at the train station. she is awesome and gorgeous...you know he kinda rocker chick that can get ANYTHING that she wants...and we hooked up...all weekend. but at the end of last night she keeps talking about her boyfriend...i was all down for the random hookup but i end up getting attached...she wants me to be her **** buddy on the side and i dont think i can really put up with the drama...why is it i always attract the ones with the plans to really mess with my head? i am so done with women and trying to date...

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:22 PM
You have thrown in the towel

Jules0565's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:27 PM
Edited by Jules0565 on Sun 09/07/08 03:33 PM
Umm.. Why would you get involved with someone that had a BF to begin with? You set yourself up for that. JMHO ohwell

VladTheInhailer's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:36 PM

Umm.. Why would you get involved with someone that had a BF to begin with? You set yourself up for that. JMHO ohwell
it was an after thought kind of thing...it was nice to have a hookup, plus i didnt know she did until after we had been together for two days

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:37 PM
Run dude ... run

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:38 PM
Let me insure I understand. You are heartbroken after 2 days?

VladTheInhailer's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:42 PM

Let me insure I understand. You are heartbroken after 2 days?
i get attached too easy...and she is somthing...well beyond the drama amazing

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:45 PM


Let me insure I understand. You are heartbroken after 2 days?
i get attached too easy...and she is somthing...well beyond the drama amazing



I would say very easily,,, but who's to say if that is a good or a bad thing. It is you so you need to understand that these types of "hurt" will come your way often should you choose to continue to act so quickly.

Lily0923's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:49 PM



Let me insure I understand. You are heartbroken after 2 days?
i get attached too easy...and she is somthing...well beyond the drama amazing



I would say very easily,,, but who's to say if that is a good or a bad thing. It is you so you need to understand that these types of "hurt" will come your way often should you choose to continue to act so quickly.


I wish I had something to add, but uhm...What she said...

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:51 PM


Let me insure I understand. You are heartbroken after 2 days?
i get attached too easy...and she is somthing...well beyond the drama amazing



I understand where you're coming from. I get attached too easily too. Especially if sex is involved. Never been able to just hook up. You probably learned a very valuable lesson about yourself....you can't either. flowerforyou

VladTheInhailer's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:53 PM
its a pain in the ass some times...but it usually keeps me from jumping in the sack with anyone...its just you know when you meet someone that just you click with and is like EVERYTHING that you have wanted to find...nd you just get so caught up that you want to puke...idk she is amazing but ill never understand...just the way my life tends to pan out though...

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:56 PM

its a pain in the ass some times...but it usually keeps me from jumping in the sack with anyone...its just you know when you meet someone that just you click with and is like EVERYTHING that you have wanted to find...nd you just get so caught up that you want to puke...idk she is amazing but ill never understand...just the way my life tends to pan out though...


Yeah, I know. :cry: Sorry you're hurting.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:57 PM
So why not try to win her heart? Heck,,, it's not like she hasn't betrayed the b/f already.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:57 PM

So why not try to win her heart? Heck,,, it's not like she hasn't betrayed the b/f already.


Just beware... if she cheated on him,,, most likely she will cheat on you as well.

noblenan's photo
Sun 09/07/08 03:57 PM




Let me insure I understand. You are heartbroken after 2 days?
i get attached too easy...and she is somthing...well beyond the drama amazing



I would say very easily,,, but who's to say if that is a good or a bad thing. It is you so you need to understand that these types of "hurt" will come your way often should you choose to continue to act so quickly.


I wish I had something to add, but uhm...What she said...


Inhalable substance will do that to ya! My advise, you might want to lay off for a while. Let your mind sharpen back up. smokin
glasses

no photo
Sun 09/07/08 11:14 PM
If she wasn't upfront about the bf, who knows what else she's hiding? I get attached too, but you're better off knowing she's not honest now rather than later. Hope you feel better soon.