Community > General Discussion

Topic: I think I finally understand...
awaiting_crescendo Joined Wed 08/20/08 Posts: 66	Thu 09/04/08 12:43 AM
Hey, sorry, don't mean to spoil the mood here. That original line about love being an illusion, just gets me a little flaired up. I've seen too much evidence to the contrary. Anyway, on with the conversation.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Thu 09/04/08 12:45 AM
all I know is I didnt think I could find love again,but I was proven wrong,when this amazing lady in my life came into my life.

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Thu 09/04/08 12:47 AM
Same here!

awaiting_crescendo Joined Wed 08/20/08 Posts: 66	Thu 09/04/08 12:48 AM Edited by awaiting_crescendo on Thu 09/04/08 12:53 AM
all I know is I didnt think I could find love again,but I was proven wrong,when this amazing lady in my life came into my life. You're not alone in that. How many times have we all heard that from somone freshly out of a nasty break-up or divorce? Love is a choice. But sometimes a fresh wound disables our willingness. Been there! And yes, then a person comes into the picture, captures the heart, and the willingness to put yourself out there and love another returns.

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Thu 09/04/08 12:49 AM
all I know is I didnt think I could find love again,but I was proven wrong,when this amazing lady in my life came into my life. Awwe... LOVE COMES WHEN YOU DO NOT EXSPECT IT!!

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Thu 09/04/08 12:52 AM
all I know is I didnt think I could find love again,but I was proven wrong,when this amazing lady in my life came into my life. You're not alone in that. How many times have we all heard that from somone freshly out of a nasty break-up or divorce? But love is a choice. But sometimes a fresh wound disables our willingness. Been there! Dude, are you Satan???

awaiting_crescendo Joined Wed 08/20/08 Posts: 66	Thu 09/04/08 12:54 AM
all I know is I didnt think I could find love again,but I was proven wrong,when this amazing lady in my life came into my life. You're not alone in that. How many times have we all heard that from somone freshly out of a nasty break-up or divorce? But love is a choice. But sometimes a fresh wound disables our willingness. Been there! Dude, are you Satan??? What on earth would make you say such a thing?

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Thu 09/04/08 12:56 AM Edited by JusWannaSayHi on Thu 09/04/08 01:10 AM
all I know is I didnt think I could find love again,but I was proven wrong,when this amazing lady in my life came into my life. You're not alone in that. How many times have we all heard that from somone freshly out of a nasty break-up or divorce? But love is a choice. But sometimes a fresh wound disables our willingness. Been there! Dude, are you Satan??? OH Hail Mary full of grace the lord is with thee.....

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Thu 09/04/08 12:59 AM
all I know is I didnt think I could find love again,but I was proven wrong,when this amazing lady in my life came into my life. You're not alone in that. How many times have we all heard that from somone freshly out of a nasty break-up or divorce? But love is a choice. But sometimes a fresh wound disables our willingness. Been there! Dude, are you Satan??? What on earth would make you say such a thing? No, it's just man your comment had some negativity there it seemed. Whether freshly out of a relationship or down the road, LOVE is real and it can be found and received through a relationship.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Thu 09/04/08 01:00 AM
all I know is I didnt think I could find love again,but I was proven wrong,when this amazing lady in my life came into my life. You're not alone in that. How many times have we all heard that from somone freshly out of a nasty break-up or divorce? But love is a choice. But sometimes a fresh wound disables our willingness. Been there! Dude, are you Satan??? What on earth would make you say such a thing? No, it's just man your comment had some negativity there it seemed. Whether freshly out of a relationship or down the road, LOVE is real and it can be found and received through a relationship. Again. That's debatable.

awaiting_crescendo Joined Wed 08/20/08 Posts: 66	Thu 09/04/08 01:01 AM
all I know is I didnt think I could find love again,but I was proven wrong,when this amazing lady in my life came into my life. You're not alone in that. How many times have we all heard that from somone freshly out of a nasty break-up or divorce? But love is a choice. But sometimes a fresh wound disables our willingness. Been there! Dude, are you Satan??? What on earth would make you say such a thing? No, it's just man your comment had some negativity there it seemed. Whether freshly out of a relationship or down the road, LOVE is real and it can be found and received through a relationship. Correction, it can be demonstrated....verb remember.

awaiting_crescendo Joined Wed 08/20/08 Posts: 66	Thu 09/04/08 01:05 AM
You see, we associate love with feeling. And while granted, feelings play a major role when it comes to love with a significant other, our feelings are not always accurate. Feelings are only emotional responses to our circumstances the way we precieve them. Further, reacting to our emotions -positive or negitive is not always a good thing. It is not always smart to do what FEELS right. Maybe, after being up till 2am, I dont FEEL like going to work tomorrow...good idea or no? Perhaps poor illustration, but I hope you get what I'm trying to say. Love is an act...a choice...and somtimes inspite of our feelings/emotions.

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Thu 09/04/08 01:11 AM
ok well bye y'all this is way to DARK for me

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Thu 09/04/08 01:15 AM
Yes, love is an "act", a "choice", and a "feeling" and an "emotion"! What are they??? They are nouns and can be found with the right person! Love is a freakin ADVERB!!!!!

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Thu 09/04/08 01:21 AM
See d!ck. See jane. See spot! See jane love d!ck. See spot hump d!cks leg! Go spot go! See d!ck put his d!ck in janes spot. Go d!ck go! Smoke crack and worship satan!

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Thu 09/04/08 01:24 AM
Love, adverb, noun, pronoun, verb, and sometimes an adjective. It can even be a conjunction if you are clever enough.

awaiting_crescendo Joined Wed 08/20/08 Posts: 66	Thu 09/04/08 01:24 AM
Yes, love is an "act", a "choice", and a "feeling" and an "emotion"! What are they??? They are nouns and can be found with the right person! Love is a freakin ADVERB!!!!! I must dissagree.

awaiting_crescendo Joined Wed 08/20/08 Posts: 66	Thu 09/04/08 01:30 AM
well, I am outta here for tonight. Take care all.