He never told me why and to this day he won't say. I left because he stopped showing me affection aka sex for close to a year. I knew I was doomed since our first 3 years was quite rewarding.

Accept that u ARE gonna have feelings of different emotions when u hear from him, and understand that its normal to still be emotional until u r completely over it.

For me, outta sight, outta mind worked....sometimes a clean break is necessary in order to have time to let ur emotions settle.

Use ur single time to do the things YOU wanna do, treat urself, indulge in hobbies etc, just keep urself busy spendin time on urself.

Everything happens for a reason, and hindsight is a wonderful thing.

Im sure 1 day u will look at back and KNOW why its all happened. Have faith in life, love and urself.

THANK YOU. but i have been dating for close to 20 years.

I wasnt talking just about dating, i was talking about LIVING.

What advice say you, when i not was on the greener?

now i am not.

I was living in Birmingham Alabama, i moved there to be with him.

I wrote several scripts and was awarded in my writing. I have had 2 produced.

I met celebrities and famous politicians. I was his pride. I was the one on his arm to charm his colleagues.

then i was dropped.

I from Bham, wonder if I know him.

Could always be worse. I suggest a self-induced concussion, and hopefully that will bring about memory loss, strange town Julie.

Could always be worse. I suggest a self-induced concussion, and hopefully that will bring about memory loss, strange town Julie.

What are you suppose to do when your heart is crushed. You had promises and you had love and then it was all taken away.

So then you move to another state. You cry for 4 months. You even start dating another guy. But then you break it off with him because you realize he is the rebound.

Now it is 8 months later and your love calls "just to see how you are"?

I try to be brave. But all I want is a time machine to go back and make him adore me again.

I am not a dummy, I am quite intelligent but I can't do this. I am going to be alone for the rest of my life and live with 17 dogs.

better than 17 cats....lol

seriously, you should have said right away that your not ready to talk to him because you dont need them feeling brought up again right now

time heals, and i`m sure you`ll find someone to share your life with

What advice say you, when i not was on the greener?

now i am not.

I was living in Birmingham Alabama, i moved there to be with him.

I wrote several scripts and was awarded in my writing. I have had 2 produced.

I met celebrities and famous politicians. I was his pride. I was the one on his arm to charm his colleagues.

then i was dropped.

What are you suppose to do when your heart is crushed. You had promises and you had love and then it was all taken away.

So then you move to another state. You cry for 4 months. You even start dating another guy. But then you break it off with him because you realize he is the rebound.

Now it is 8 months later and your love calls "just to see how you are"?

I try to be brave. But all I want is a time machine to go back and make him adore me again.

I am not a dummy, I am quite intelligent but I can't do this. I am going to be alone for the rest of my life and live with 17 dogs.