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Topic: Is it just me?
BrownEydChulo82 Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 18	Tue 09/02/08 05:43 PM
I known my g/f for two years and we started dating just weeks ago. We both work in a same job. However, since we started dating, she been flirting with a co-worker in front of me. and I asked her what if i done the same to her (flirting with other girls) she would be mad at me and not talk to me, but she she still flirt with the same co-worker. I Dunno.. is flirting is normal? thoughts?

bergeia Joined Tue 08/12/08 Posts: 4022	Tue 09/02/08 05:46 PM
im usually a little jealous, but most guys are, it shows the women that we love them and while we do trust them we dont rust other guys,lol. also, it shows how much we think of them in general, obviously they have to know when someone flirts with them its a pickup, the other person wants them. if it were me, and i werent married, shed stop or its over. dont go with me though, im not too smart. lol. not atm anyhow.

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Tue 09/02/08 05:52 PM
Thats the bad thing about dating someone that you work with. You not only see them away from work but then you feel like you have to watch them around everyone else. I think what you need to do is sit down with her and tell her that she really needs to stop the flirting. Tell her that it bothers you, and if she doesn't stop..then you need to figure out if you can handle it or not. If not, walk away from the situation!!

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Tue 09/02/08 05:54 PM
I known my g/f for two years and we started dating just weeks ago. We both work in a same job. However, since we started dating, she been flirting with a co-worker in front of me. and I asked her what if i done the same to her (flirting with other girls) she would be mad at me and not talk to me, but she she still flirt with the same co-worker. I Dunno.. is flirting is normal? thoughts? She probably had friendships with those people before you started going out. I would just let it go. I think its worse when you break up, and still have too see each other everday. Just relax give her some space, and continue to make Her happy she is going home with You. When you go out with the Boys, give yourself a Ego Boost,and Flirt a little. Then go hame, and show her how much You missed her. Good Luck, and Relax

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 09/03/08 01:01 AM
This is pretty textbook!!! She is testing her boundaries with you........whatcha gonna do???? Flip out??? Nooooooooo!!!! The best thing to do is let her do what she is doing and ignore it......my guess is she is going to have this face... and ask you......"why arent you jealous?" You gotta act cool........and then go home and beat up your teddy bear!!!

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Wed 09/03/08 01:34 AM
This is pretty textbook!!! She is testing her boundaries with you........whatcha gonna do???? Flip out??? Nooooooooo!!!! The best thing to do is let her do what she is doing and ignore it......my guess is she is going to have this face... and ask you......"why arent you jealous?" You gotta act cool........and then go home and beat up your teddy bear!!! Words from the master Gypsy Bows

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 09/03/08 01:37 AM
hello young grasshoppa!!! Isnt it sh*tty that it has to be a game??? But it is........it always is.......

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Wed 09/03/08 01:43 AM Edited by s1owhand on Wed 09/03/08 02:00 AM


Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 09/03/08 02:05 AM
I heard that!!!

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Wed 09/03/08 02:07 AM


Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 09/03/08 02:22 AM
Start flirting with a hot chick and see how she likes it. Yes, petty, but hey....you get to flirt with a hot chick. Just do it!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 09/03/08 02:29 AM
Start flirting with a hot chick and see how she likes it. Yes, petty, but hey....you get to flirt with a hot chick. Just do it! He could do that but does he want to be stabbed in the face with long red fake nails???????? ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww sooooooooooooooo not pretty!!!