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Topic: IF IT WASENT FOR BAD LUCK....I WOULDNT HAVE NO LUCK AT ALL.
luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Tue 09/02/08 03:37 PM
You know, I couldnt find a decent guy cause I used drugs ...so I quit. Just celebrated my 4th month drug free. Now I cant get a decent guy because I used to do drugs!!! WTF???? I cant win for losen. Eventually ill figure it all out, by then ill be 80 ...and then ill be too old.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 09/02/08 03:40 PM
I'm slowly drifting toward the realization that there is no such thing as a "decent" person....at least, in terms of interpersonal compatibility....

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 09/02/08 03:41 PM
congrats on 4 mos clean ease up on man hunt

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Tue 09/02/08 03:41 PM
I'm slowly drifting toward the realization that there is no such thing as a "decent" person....at least, in terms of interpersonal compatibility.... AMEN TO THAT!!!

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Tue 09/02/08 03:42 PM
You know, I couldnt find a decent guy cause I used drugs ...so I quit. Just celebrated my 4th month drug free. Now I cant get a decent guy because I used to do drugs!!! WTF???? I cant win for losen. Eventually ill figure it all out, by then ill be 80 ...and then ill be too old. CONGRATS HUN!!!! AND THE HELL WITH THEM ! IT WILL COME SOMEDAY WHEN YOU AREN"T EVEN LOOKIN.

liltazz Joined Tue 07/29/08 Posts: 217	Tue 09/02/08 03:42 PM
Congratulations on the 4 months!! You'll find someone worthy of you, don't give up.

joshyfox Joined Fri 08/18/06 Posts: 4272	Tue 09/02/08 03:42 PM
It will be ok. You'll find someone. I may only be 23, but due to my life-oath to "My Vixen" (Who I haven't met) I understand the crushing loneliness of wanting to be loved and being unable to find someone. At times it seems like it's impossible I'll ever find her, but still I carry on because I have to. If you quit, you'll only guarantee that you won't find him. If you truly wish to accept such a fate, then stop looking, otherwise for the sake of love, carry on.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Tue 09/02/08 03:43 PM
congrats on 4 mos clean ease up on man hunt yes maam.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 09/02/08 03:45 PM
congrats on 4 mos clean ease up on man hunt yes maam. Hope you didnt misunderstand, I truly believe everything happens when it is supposed to, doesnt happen when we want/will it to. Kudos!!!!

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Tue 09/02/08 03:45 PM
Congrats to you! And just believe and let it happen....like I always say..may not be when you want it...but when God believes you are ready for it....I think most of the problems in life are wanting it now instead of just allowing it to happen...it was mine for a long time....but now I know who it is...I just have to wait for when it is

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Tue 09/02/08 03:45 PM
It will be ok. You'll find someone. I may only be 23, but due to my life-oath to "My Vixen" (Who I haven't met) I understand the crushing loneliness of wanting to be loved and being unable to find someone. At times it seems like it's impossible I'll ever find her, but still I carry on because I have to. If you quit, you'll only guarantee that you won't find him. If you truly wish to accept such a fate, then stop looking, otherwise for the sake of love, carry on. THATS WHAT IM SAYING....THANK YOU!!!!!THANK YOU!!!!If I hear one more person say that I need to be alone and find myself, or to quit looking...IM GOING TO VOMIT!!!! Thank you!!!!!!!!!

musical Joined Tue 01/02/07 Posts: 1	Tue 09/02/08 03:46 PM
It just takes one! The right one. Look at how many decent friends you have. You just need to meet one decent guy. They, both men and women, are out there. Yo will find him o he will find you.Sometimes you have to use guarded positive thinking.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Tue 09/02/08 03:47 PM
Congrats to you! And just believe and let it happen....like I always say..may not be when you want it...but when God believes you are ready for it....I think most of the problems in life are wanting it now instead of just allowing it to happen...it was mine for a long time....but now I know who it is...I just have to wait for when it is Yeah, im with you on that..if God has his hand in it...than hes gonna control it totally...but darnit...hes laggin..lol.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Tue 09/02/08 03:50 PM
Congrats to you! And just believe and let it happen....like I always say..may not be when you want it...but when God believes you are ready for it....I think most of the problems in life are wanting it now instead of just allowing it to happen...it was mine for a long time....but now I know who it is...I just have to wait for when it is Yeah, im with you on that..if God has his hand in it...than hes gonna control it totally...but darnit...hes laggin..lol. He does that...but he does have much to do....lol...just remember that the promises do come to you

FallingLikeRain Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 180	Tue 09/02/08 03:51 PM
Congratulations hun, on four months. I say; don't give up on your search. If you do, there is no chance of finding him, but don't look too terribly hard either. Find that unique balance to where you are looking, but it isn't an obsession. You will find the right guy hunny, it may not be on your time, but he will come around. And you'll know it when you've found him. Keep going strong!

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Tue 09/02/08 03:52 PM
Congratulations hun, on four months. I say; don't give up on your search. If you do, there is no chance of finding him, but don't look too terribly hard either. Find that unique balance to where you are looking, but it isn't an obsession. You will find the right guy hunny, it may not be on your time, but he will come around. And you'll know it when you've found him. Keep going strong! Aiiiiight...thanks hun.

Sweetnshy47 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 1261	Tue 09/02/08 03:55 PM
Patience,and be positive,your a beautiful woman Luv torock ,it'll happen!

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Tue 09/02/08 03:56 PM
SEE, THIS IS WHY I MINGLE SOOOO MUCH!!! I GET MY LITTLE PANITES(if I had any..heehee) IN A BUNCH, AND YOU ALL COMING RUNNING TO HUG ME. I YOU ALL SO MUCH!! THANK YOU!!! ~Roberta~

Sweetnshy47 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 1261	Tue 09/02/08 03:57 PM


MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 09/02/08 03:58 PM
You know, I couldnt find a decent guy cause I used drugs ...so I quit. Just celebrated my 4th month drug free. Now I cant get a decent guy because I used to do drugs!!! WTF???? I cant win for losen. Eventually ill figure it all out, by then ill be 80 ...and then ill be too old. Let me hugg you and make you feel better