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Edited by
sgtpepper
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Tue 09/02/08 12:58 PM
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Although playing in a band is great it really takes a toll on my love life. Finding somebody that you click with is hard enough, but when one of the two people is gone for a month or maybe more the other can lose interest. This is where I have been for a while. So If I could have some advice, ladies, is there anybody out there for me, or am I chasing a pipe dream?
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it boils down to priorities.
are you ready to give up your band to settle down? is there someone in your life that is worth it or will you regret your decision once your relationship with her gets comfortable? you don't seem very old. i would enjoy the band for awhile then think about settling down if it were me. maybe you'll meet 'her' on the road... |
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 It aint hard to get chicks if your in a band dude.  I know from personal experience. I put my time in on a garage band when I was your age LOL
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You are 21 years old! Why are you looking for a relationship anyway!!! You are out there doing something you love and having a great time!! This is the perfect time to do that!
Stop worrying about finding the love of your life-Just enjoy living your life and love will find you. You have endless opportunities ahead of you- Relax and go with it. I wish I had followed my dreams when I was your age. At least you can go through life never wondering "what if" |
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You are 21 years old! Why are you looking for a relationship anyway!!! You are out there doing something you love and having a great time!! This is the perfect time to do that! Stop worrying about finding the love of your life-Just enjoy living your life and love will find you. You have endless opportunities ahead of you- Relax and go with it. I wish I had followed my dreams when I was your age. At least you can go through life never wondering "what if" *golf clap* bravo! |
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Edited by
Etrain
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Tue 09/02/08 01:07 PM
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When in doubt, I'll whip it out.
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just marry a groupie
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At 21 it is in the moment... love and lust and pining... not going to work. I agree with the advice you've been given.
If you keep up the band lifestyle, know that in a few years it will be a choice, one over the other. |
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There is always a solution. Remember that and try to work it out.
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You are 21 years old! Why are you looking for a relationship anyway!!! You are out there doing something you love and having a great time!! This is the perfect time to do that! Stop worrying about finding the love of your life-Just enjoy living your life and love will find you. You have endless opportunities ahead of you- Relax and go with it. I wish I had followed my dreams when I was your age. At least you can go through life never wondering "what if" What if is a familiar question to me. Im looking for a relationship because I need some stable force in my life. I was previously engagaged and then dumped when my band actually started to take off. (quite the twist huh? lol) I go with the flow and am in no way desperate, but making yourself happy can be lonely work. Sure everyone says being in a band you no problem getting girls and there is no strings attached, but there is no real substance in that. Ill take the advice and be patient, but i may not like it all that much.
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Good luck finding a girl willing to wait it out at that age. Just be realistic, okay?
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just marry a groupie
Thats what my dad said!
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Good luck finding a girl willing to wait it out at that age. Just be realistic, okay? Will do thanks for stopping by. |
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