I've been looking at all of the posts and you all want trust,and honesty. So most of you here have been burned in the past. So how are you going to trust and be honest with anyone at this site?
Have any of you really meet someone even if it's online via mail back and forth talking to each other asking them questions for any time length? (More than 4 emails?)
Building a relationship and or just a friendship starts by sending mail in a dedicated fashion. Yeah you're right I can't find her here she is either way far away or if she's near by she doesn't want to stick it out sending mail.(Rapid Email) What's the use, is what I'm hearing on this site. We are all lonely, but not enough to say hello. We'd rather say wow that's not what I'm looking for. We all have our problems and our baggage but don't you know better than that?

Let's see how many responses I get on this I'll bet you not many at all.

Perfect is never there you have to bend a little.
I'm not perfect and neither are you!

Sometimes it takes stepping out of our own comfort zones, we're afraid to do that for whatever reasons.

Relationships are truly work...no matter who you are with you will never be gloriously happy every day. A good relationship will thrive on communication, honesty and trust.

"He doesn't need to have the best of everything, he just needs to give his best to me"

Well 8 views and 2 respones just what I thought would happen a topic we don't want to face. One lady has YNOTU! Come on people lets get honest here!

Thank you for speaking up Jules0565 finally someone who does have something to say!

Thanks

Any time

It has been my experience, so far, that although people ask for honesty and openness, they are not really ready to hear the brutal truth up front. It seems that people here want to find their "true love", but are too easy to mistrust other people because there are no visual or audio cues to be able to determine just how honest a person's words happen to be.

I myself have found it quite easy to mistrust people here, but when I am asked a question, I answer it honestly and openly, hoping that the person whose question I answer will accept my answer and not judge me. If I am judged, and the person leaves the conversation and/or relationship (be it acquaintance, friendship, love, whatever), then my only loss is that I opened up to one more person who couldn't accept that a person can be open and honest without question.