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luv2roknroll's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:12 AM
HELP ME PLEASE....

I DID SOMETHING SO F'N STUPID YESTERDAYfrustrated ...PLEASE HELP ME MINGLERS.

I MADE A REALLY BAD OFF COLOR COMMENT TO SOMEONE, AND NOW THEY WANT TO LEAVE THIS SIGHT.

(I KNOW, YOU GUYS SHOULD STONE ME IN PUBLIC).

PLEASE HELP ME TO CONVINCE THIS WONDERFUL MAN,flowerforyou THAT ONE STUPID A'HOLES (ME)COMMENTS, SHOULD NOT MAKE HIM LEAVE THIS AWESOME SITE....

PLEASE HELP ME...HES A GREAT GUY, AND WE REALLY DONT WANT TO LOSE HIM!!!!:heart:

Im so sorry.
~Roberta~

fairycatcher31's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:13 AM
who is the person and we will flood him with emails and convince him to stay!

RKISIT's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:13 AM
live and learn,put your brain in gear before you put your mouth in motion

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:14 AM
If everyone left when they were hurt or offended by someone on here, there would be no one left. I'm sorry that happend. Just apologize and then it's his decision.

broncosrock's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:14 AM
I don't know what you said, but I wouldn't think it could have been that badwhat .

Ted14621's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:14 AM
What's the "off color" comment?noway

no photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:15 AM
life happens
you take it with a grain of salt and move on

you have apologized, that's all you can do
the rest is up to him

Ted14621's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:16 AM

life happens
you take it with a grain of salt and move on

you have apologized, that's all you can do
the rest is up to him

But can you apologize for something you do on purpose?noway

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:19 AM


life happens
you take it with a grain of salt and move on

you have apologized, that's all you can do
the rest is up to him

But can you apologize for something you do on purpose?noway


Different people get offended by different things and some see humor where others take offense. If you say something that you know will hurt someone and you say it to hurt them than you probably don't care about apologizing anyway. But, if you said something and didn't mean to hurt that person than yes, you can apologize.

elwoodsully's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:19 AM


life happens
you take it with a grain of salt and move on

you have apologized, that's all you can do
the rest is up to him

But can you apologize for something you do on purpose?noway


Of course you can. I was a bouncer, and always apologized to whomever I had to bounce. I usually just told them "Sorry, but you did get out of line, and this is my job."

luv2roknroll's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:19 AM


life happens
you take it with a grain of salt and move on

you have apologized, that's all you can do
the rest is up to him

But can you apologize for something you do on purpose?noway
I didnt mean to offend. My big azz mouth got ahead of my brain.

Ted14621's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:20 AM



life happens
you take it with a grain of salt and move on

you have apologized, that's all you can do
the rest is up to him

But can you apologize for something you do on purpose?noway


Different people get offended by different things and some see humor where others take offense. If you say something that you know will hurt someone and you say it to hurt them than you probably don't care about apologizing anyway. But, if you said something and didn't mean to hurt that person than yes, you can apologize.

Good answer Ruthflowerforyou

KymmieSue's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:21 AM
Could be this person just wanted an excuse to leave, and is using what you said as an excuse. Sorry it happened to you.

Most people I've met here are sooooo nice. You really can't be that bad. I refuse to believe it.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:25 AM
He's playing you, if he takes what one person says so intimatly and plays the victim to it...let him go.

That's a childish tactic...like I'm gonna hold my breath til I get my way kinda thing. why would you feed into that?

tell him to put his big boy panties on and get over it.

Ted14621's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:27 AM

He's playing you, if he takes what one person says so intimatly and plays the victim to it...let him go.

That's a childish tactic...like I'm gonna hold my breath til I get my way kinda thing. why would you feed into that?

tell him to put his big boy panties on and get over it.

Oh Lily, spank melaugh

buttons's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:27 AM

He's playing you, if he takes what one person says so intimatly and plays the victim to it...let him go.

That's a childish tactic...like I'm gonna hold my breath til I get my way kinda thing. why would you feed into that?

tell him to put his big boy panties on and get over it.
totally agree... its the pity poor me gamelaugh

luv2roknroll's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:57 AM
Ok you guys...

It was a racist comment...

and I AM NOT A RACIST!!!

Thats what is eating me up so bad...WTF WAS I THINKING OR DOING???

No, hes not trying to get pity...your wayyyyy off on that one...trust and believe.

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:59 AM
If you apologized and he won't accept that then there's nothing you can do and I would let it go.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:02 AM

Ok you guys...

It was a racist comment...

and I AM NOT A RACIST!!!

Thats what is eating me up so bad...WTF WAS I THINKING OR DOING???

No, hes not trying to get pity...your wayyyyy off on that one...trust and believe.


Well he should block and delete you for sure, but to quit the site because of you? Please.

How many times has a woman been called a b*tch or a whore, or whatever else on here and in emails? I can't even count that high... do I blame those who do act like adults? a aNO....

Big boy panties, they sell them at wal-mart.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:02 AM
Words only have meaning if you give them meaning...

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