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Morning ((((Shadow))))) How's everything? 
Moring  Well this post should say it 
Yeah, well, aside from that? How's daddyhood treating ya? |
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I'm going through something similar, if I get your drift. And, that person keeps trying to tell me that I'm holding myself back, that I'm the one being negative. Hey, if I have a boundary, it's not just some arbitrary thing. It's there for a reason. "Do not trespass" means exactly that, not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it. Not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it. ^^^And that part is what is driving me nuts. OK this should be simple for everone here. If i tell you i don't want you a part of my life. Are you going to keep trying to be?
Yup, cause you're wrong, wrong, wrong! You don't know what you want 
I guess it's the blonde in me
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Morning ((((Shadow))))) How's everything?
Moring Well this post should say it
Yeah, well, aside from that? How's daddyhood treating ya? Really good, i have him today. Have to take him in for his appointment. the little guy has a little cough. But he will be fine. Hm, fist time i get to go in with him by myself 
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Morning ((((Shadow))))) How's everything?
Moring Well this post should say it
Yeah, well, aside from that? How's daddyhood treating ya? Really good, i have him today. Have to take him in for his appointment. the little guy has a little cough. But he will be fine. Hm, fist time i get to go in with him by myself
And you will do just fine. He's getting so big!
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I wish I could help, but I'm one of the clueless. The only thing I can say is the best course is plain, direct and harsh language. Don't be PC, don't be afraid to drop some vulgarities, and for god's sake do not try to "go easy on them." If they're rapped up in you, it's going to hurt either way, so do it like a band-aid and end it quick and painful.
I know I've missed more than a few sublte hints in my lifetime, but I've never missed a hard punch to the teeth. Sure, it might make you appear mean at the time, but in several months or years, whoever it is will realize that you did them a favor. No one wants to be the A-h0le, but sometimes it's the best course of action. If you can't be the jerkoff, then you just end up hurting yourself and the other party even worse at a later date. |
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I'm going through something similar, if I get your drift. And, that person keeps trying to tell me that I'm holding myself back, that I'm the one being negative. Hey, if I have a boundary, it's not just some arbitrary thing. It's there for a reason. "Do not trespass" means exactly that, not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it. Not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it. ^^^And that part is what is driving me nuts. OK this should be simple for everone here. If i tell you i don't want you a part of my life. Are you going to keep trying to be?
Seriously, NO. And, if someone told me that, I wouldn't WANT to try and convince them. Then it's just a sales job and I'D BE SETTLING and feeling like crap if I had to connive myself into someone's life. |
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omg I could so swing for a home run on this one. Let's talk boundaries and dealbreakers. No means no plain and simple. I agree, why don't people get it? And why do they either a) attack when you tell them no or b) refuse to believe you?
People set boundaries for a reason. Whether it be for protection, simple disgust with the topic, etc.... These boundaries should be respected, even if you don't understand why they are in place. You shouldn't expect someone to change thier boundaries or think they will change thier mind about the issue just because it is "you".... Shadow if you get a deffinitive answer for this one please share..... Good Luck
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I just wanted to wish you a very happy hump day 
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Really good, i have him today. Have to take him in for his appointment. the little guy has a little cough. But he will be fine. Hm, fist time i get to go in with him by myself
OMG, he really is getting big, how much fun is that? And you'll do fine at the doc and it's probably just a little cold.
I need to run mine in, too, I think. He's been having stomach pains, cramps and mild nausea for going on 2 weeks (I just found it out it came back yesterday). I'm thinking that's not normal. 
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Morning ((((Shadow))))) How's everything?
Moring Well this post should say it
Yeah, well, aside from that? How's daddyhood treating ya? Really good, i have him today. Have to take him in for his appointment. the little guy has a little cough. But he will be fine. Hm, fist time i get to go in with him by myself
And you will do just fine. He's getting so big!
Yeah he is, he turned 3 months a couple days ago
How you doing? |
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Did I miss the point of the topic again???
I should just stop posting and only read these things. 
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omg I could so swing for a home run on this one. Let's talk boundaries and dealbreakers. No means no plain and simple. I agree, why don't people get it? And why do they either a) attack when you tell them no or b) refuse to believe you? People set boundaries for a reason. Whether it be for protection, simple disgust with the topic, etc.... These boundaries should be respected, even if you don't understand why they are in place. You shouldn't expect someone to change thier boundaries or think they will change thier mind about the issue just because it is "you".... Shadow if you get a deffinitive answer for this one please share..... Good Luck
Will do
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Morning ((((Shadow))))) How's everything?
Moring Well this post should say it
Yeah, well, aside from that? How's daddyhood treating ya? Really good, i have him today. Have to take him in for his appointment. the little guy has a little cough. But he will be fine. Hm, fist time i get to go in with him by myself
And you will do just fine. He's getting so big!
Yeah he is, he turned 3 months a couple days ago
How you doing? I'm good dollface
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Really good, i have him today. Have to take him in for his appointment. the little guy has a little cough. But he will be fine. Hm, fist time i get to go in with him by myself
OMG, he really is getting big, how much fun is that? And you'll do fine at the doc and it's probably just a little cold.
I need to run mine in, too, I think. He's been having stomach pains, cramps and mild nausea for going on 2 weeks (I just found it out it came back yesterday). I'm thinking that's not normal.
yeah i will be fine. just taking the foot work and keep moving on Well hope yours feel better.
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Morning ((((Shadow))))) How's everything?
Moring Well this post should say it
Yeah, well, aside from that? How's daddyhood treating ya? Really good, i have him today. Have to take him in for his appointment. the little guy has a little cough. But he will be fine. Hm, fist time i get to go in with him by myself
Good morning Shadow, I hope your boy gets better quick. Glad he's with you today. Some people never "get" it you know!
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Did I miss the point of the topic again???
I should just stop posting and only read these things.
it's all good, we new what you were tlking about 
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Morning ((((Shadow))))) How's everything?
Moring Well this post should say it
Yeah, well, aside from that? How's daddyhood treating ya? Really good, i have him today. Have to take him in for his appointment. the little guy has a little cough. But he will be fine. Hm, fist time i get to go in with him by myself
Good morning Shadow, I hope your boy gets better quick. Glad he's with you today. Some people never "get" it you know!
Morning Art I just have to keep being me and may, just maybe somthing might click
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Some people no matter if ya hit them over the head with a baseball bat they will still not understand what your saying. They are clueless or in fact choose not to listen for they are in their own little world. And only want things their way only.
Morning Baby Boy glad to hear baby is growing sure the cough is only minor. Give him huggzzs and sugars for me.
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