Approach women online does hey want too chat really work?

Nope.

Just cash

sometimes... try asking how she is doing, then go from there goodluck

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Just don't mention that you live near Drew Peterson.. I avoided that subject, and I now have a girlfriend from here..

Just ask "how much for the whole night".

You need an internet wing man dude

stalk them....they like that!!!!

Assuming you email these women first, say something funny and make a genuine comment about something you liked about her profile (then they know you actually read it). Give it a minute before ya drop the "hey, wanna chat" question...unless she has expressed specifically that she is a chatter. Then why not?
If neither of those approaches work, stalk her or offer cash!

If you spell it right.

I just posted 10,000 times and then all kinds of women started sending me e-mails. Of course, they are all 897,000 miles away. But e-mail is e-mail.

If someone that I have never interacted with says "hey want to chat?" I would ignore him.

If you can't find anything about my posts or my profile that gives you more to say than that, then you are clearly not the man for me.

Instant message them. This annoying box will open and they won't have a chance to check you out first or think it over. Just have some nude pix ready in case they say hi. (kidding)

Unless I am wrong, i'd just have to say shoot them a message, give them a compliment where you feel its due, be yourself and if it is meant to work out, it will.

Oh, and type in coherent complete sentences. Nobody wants 2 read shrt ltl msgs lik dis. It looks stupid.

and whatever you do, don't start telling the other person about how you just LOVE star trek, star wars, sailor moon, or some other curiously obscure film or anime franchise. that's instant dating death right there...

No, it doesn't work, at least not on me. It doesn't show that you've actually read someone's profile or have any interest beyond the fact that she's, you know, female. I never respond to "Hi, how's it going?", "Let me know if you want to chat", or other versions of the "I'd like to talk with you" messages I get. They don't say anything. If someone's going to message me, it would be nice if they 1) showed some evidence of having read my profile, and 2) made some sort of attempt to start an actual conversation with some actual substance.

The best messages are those that reference someone's profile, and ask a question or two. This can be about something in the profile, or just a general question, but it gives your target mingler something to respond to.

Good luck!

Agreed...being a geek/nerd/dork can be cool, but not right away.

My personal fave is starting out with, "Nice shoes wanna F__ ?"

Especially if you haven`t read their profile or forum posts .. (why would you) .. Most women love it when you comment only on their beauty, in between describing the many ways you wish to violate them.

don't include your phone number in your very first email, makes you look very needy.

LOL... I have done what you have mentioned. It doesn’t work. Even with mutual match.