Topic: Am I the only one here...
bloopbleep's photo
Tue 08/26/08 01:34 AM
I think it would be nice to meet someone, but you can see how well that's working for me. I'm certainly not counting on it, but I'm not ruling anything out either.

I just kind of stick around and read posts on occasion but it's like 3 days since last post every time I read it seems.

playwithmeoooolala's photo
Tue 08/26/08 01:35 AM
you meet people every day. some stay some go

no photo
Tue 08/26/08 07:17 AM

...who really wants to meet someone? I get the feeling most people are using this site as a substitute for a real relationship.


In my experience (not just here, but on dating sites in general), you either have to be extremely lucky or extremely mainstream to have any chance of finding someone truly compatible. "Outside-the-box" does not play well in these venues.

I have given up on the idea of meeting anyone from a website, and I now understand that real life is the only thing that is going to hold any potential for me....

no photo
Tue 08/26/08 08:59 AM

I think it would be nice to meet someone, but you can see how well that's working for me. I'm certainly not counting on it, but I'm not ruling anything out either.

I just kind of stick around and read posts on occasion but it's like 3 days since last post every time I read it seems.


Well when you're busy taking over the world, who has time to post? laugh Cute profile.

no photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:20 AM

I would love to meet someone on here that I could form a lasting relationship with. But I'm sure not counting on it. Not to down the medium too much but this is this, and unless someone is totally immersed in it (which can't be a good thing), you only see anothers well formed thoughts. OK..sometimes not so well formed. like this one. lol



Ok, After reading that 3 times I think I understand.
The thing I like best about this medium is the ability to see how someone responds to the questions people ask. Are they thoughtful, reasonably intelligent, & polite to others? Do they have similar interests & lifestyles? Who do they interact with? After being here a while, you can tell alot about someone just by seeing thier "friends" list. I like being able to see how they handle themselves in different situations here, it's a screening process for me. I am meeting a lot of nice people, but I guess I am not what they are looking for.

I am coming to the conclusion that many people are here just to have "friends" to hang out with, a place to vent thier daily frustrations, or "cyber" away other types of frustrations. I think these are all valid reasons to be here, I like hanging out & chatting too, but I was hoping to meet someone who wants to move it offline & make a real connection.

bloopbleep's photo
Tue 08/26/08 08:48 PM

Well when you're busy taking over the world, who has time to post? laugh Cute profile.


Hah, thanks. I've brewed over my profile for hours upon hours. You know, putting a lot of blood, sweat and tears into it!

I really wish it was a little more active and people seemed to actually want to meet people. It seems so dead and seems like no one ever wants to meet anyone. Sure, talking online here is great and all, but I wanna actually meet someone and do something offline too. I know, crazy idea!

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 08/26/08 08:55 PM


Well when you're busy taking over the world, who has time to post? laugh Cute profile.


Hah, thanks. I've brewed over my profile for hours upon hours. You know, putting a lot of blood, sweat and tears into it!

I really wish it was a little more active and people seemed to actually want to meet people. It seems so dead and seems like no one ever wants to meet anyone. Sure, talking online here is great and all, but I wanna actually meet someone and do something offline too. I know, crazy idea!


One thing I can tell you is this....

My profile was up on this site for MONTHS, and rarely, if at all, got any views.

I have been posting here for the last couple of months, and over the last few weeks, my profile has been viewed a LOT.

Still haven't found anyone, but as I said before, if it happens, it happens.

Posting here on the forums helps the ladies here find out a little bit about you beyond what you have in your profile.

Besides, it can't hurt. Unless of course you are actually a jacka**....lmao

eileena9's photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:03 PM
I found somebody...........and he found me too!!!!!!!!bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


Sorry.......silly mood tonight!!

no photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:05 PM
<---is really trying to meet someone. In fact, I changed my look to hopefully be more attractive to the women.

Ladies, does my new look work for me?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:05 PM

<---is really trying to meet someone. In fact, I changed my look to hopefully be more attractive to the women.

Ladies, does my new look work for me?


Any woman who wouldn't love a Fraggle isn't worth having anyway!!!!

eileena9's photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:09 PM
Me wuvs a fwaggle!!!bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile :tongue:

no photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:10 PM
After all this time of trying to look cool and sexy I now realize it is better to be cute and fuzzy.

Who knew???

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:13 PM
Yep. Funny how that works isn't it??

My profile has gotten a LOT more views with the Bondage Bear as my main pic than it EVER did with a pic of myself....lmao

Goofball73's photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:19 PM
I came here for punch and pie.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:22 PM
damnit figures soon as i get here everyone goes on break,


explode mad grumble


laugh :wink:

eileena9's photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:24 PM
I'm still here........................being ignored........laugh

Goofball73's photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:27 PM

I'm still here........................being ignored........laugh


I love Stitch

eileena9's photo
Tue 08/26/08 09:31 PM


I'm still here........................being ignored........laugh


I love Stitch


Me too...........My daughters and I stood on line at Disneyworld to have our picture taken with him, and almost missed out.
I looked at the woman and must have had tears in my eyes, cuz she let us go.bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

bloopbleep's photo
Tue 08/26/08 10:18 PM



Well when you're busy taking over the world, who has time to post? laugh Cute profile.


Hah, thanks. I've brewed over my profile for hours upon hours. You know, putting a lot of blood, sweat and tears into it!

I really wish it was a little more active and people seemed to actually want to meet people. It seems so dead and seems like no one ever wants to meet anyone. Sure, talking online here is great and all, but I wanna actually meet someone and do something offline too. I know, crazy idea!


One thing I can tell you is this....

My profile was up on this site for MONTHS, and rarely, if at all, got any views.

I have been posting here for the last couple of months, and over the last few weeks, my profile has been viewed a LOT.

Still haven't found anyone, but as I said before, if it happens, it happens.

Posting here on the forums helps the ladies here find out a little bit about you beyond what you have in your profile.

Besides, it can't hurt. Unless of course you are actually a jacka**....lmao


Yeah, mine's been up a while and hardly gets anything. Not that it really bothers me though. Just seems like it's dead and most other sections here I look and it's like 3 days ago for last post which doesn't speak well for it.

I'm not forcing anything. If something happens, great, if not, then I'm no worse off than I was before, right?

No one around here seems to post anyway, so I'd assume they don't really care about that either, but oh well. I'll just continue on my merry little way like usual.

I have a tendency to check like every few hours because I'm playing WoW because I got suckered into this thing...

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 08/26/08 10:22 PM




Well when you're busy taking over the world, who has time to post? laugh Cute profile.


Hah, thanks. I've brewed over my profile for hours upon hours. You know, putting a lot of blood, sweat and tears into it!

I really wish it was a little more active and people seemed to actually want to meet people. It seems so dead and seems like no one ever wants to meet anyone. Sure, talking online here is great and all, but I wanna actually meet someone and do something offline too. I know, crazy idea!


One thing I can tell you is this....

My profile was up on this site for MONTHS, and rarely, if at all, got any views.

I have been posting here for the last couple of months, and over the last few weeks, my profile has been viewed a LOT.

Still haven't found anyone, but as I said before, if it happens, it happens.

Posting here on the forums helps the ladies here find out a little bit about you beyond what you have in your profile.

Besides, it can't hurt. Unless of course you are actually a jacka**....lmao


Yeah, mine's been up a while and hardly gets anything. Not that it really bothers me though. Just seems like it's dead and most other sections here I look and it's like 3 days ago for last post which doesn't speak well for it.

I'm not forcing anything. If something happens, great, if not, then I'm no worse off than I was before, right?

No one around here seems to post anyway, so I'd assume they don't really care about that either, but oh well. I'll just continue on my merry little way like usual.

I have a tendency to check like every few hours because I'm playing WoW because I got suckered into this thing...


Well...there are always active threads...almost always anyway. It just depends on what sections you are looking in.

Not forcing it is a good way to go. But posting more will help as well.