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Topic: GIRLS
tmay Joined Fri 03/28/08 Posts: 112	Mon 08/25/08 01:33 PM
So ive always had a hard time talkin to girls i never know what to say to them. like ill be with my boys and there will be an atractive girl i want to talk to but i just walk away cause i never know what to say its not that i dont have the balls to talkl to them. any advice would be great! thanx all

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 08/25/08 01:33 PM
HAVE A FEW DRINKS

SmurfyPoet292721 Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 656	Mon 08/25/08 01:34 PM
heres a thought have ya ever tried "hey, what's up" its simple really

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 08/25/08 01:34 PM
I suffer from shyness with women

sara89 Joined Fri 11/30/07 Posts: 1143	Mon 08/25/08 01:34 PM
just say hi, and go with the flow.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 08/25/08 01:35 PM
it's not even what you say, it takes 7 seconds to make a first impression

tmay Joined Fri 03/28/08 Posts: 112	Mon 08/25/08 01:35 PM
HAVE A FEW DRINKS yeah maybe at a party

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 08/25/08 01:35 PM
Drink some booze...then go up to them and grab em in the biscuits

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 08/25/08 01:36 PM
Dont pressure yourself. Try to get to know a woman in the normal fashion.

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Mon 08/25/08 01:36 PM
Try giving them a nice smile

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 08/25/08 01:36 PM
I always have a cooler of beer with me at all times

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 08/25/08 01:36 PM
I always have a cooler of beer with me at all times

voxsteven Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 1813	Mon 08/25/08 01:37 PM
maybe you should interact with them as women instead of girls.

tmay Joined Fri 03/28/08 Posts: 112	Mon 08/25/08 01:39 PM
I always have a cooler of beer with me at all times yeah but im not 21 ill get aressted!

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Mon 08/25/08 01:39 PM
HAVE A FEW DRINKS I was thinkin the same thing....TEQUILA!!!

BobbyJ Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 1368	Mon 08/25/08 01:40 PM
What is with you "shy" guys! Why so many complaining with what I call a MONE (Missed Opportunity No Excuse)?! Get some self-confidence and dare to be bold! Get out there and start a conversation with a woman you find attractive. Chances are, she'll be available to you. If not, move on to the next one and don't take rejection personally! Don't know what to say? Talk about anything! You'll learn. As the ex Green Bay Packer great Paul Hornung used to say; "Practice, practice, practice..."

IrishDynamite Joined Sun 08/10/08 Posts: 25	Mon 08/25/08 01:43 PM
Drink some booze...then go up to them and grab em in the biscuits Lol, that's assault, brother.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 08/25/08 01:44 PM
Drink some booze...then go up to them and grab em in the biscuits Lol, that's assault, brother. only if they catch you

tmay Joined Fri 03/28/08 Posts: 112	Mon 08/25/08 01:44 PM
thanx bobby that makes some real sesne

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Mon 08/25/08 01:49 PM
thanx bobby that makes some real sesne That is the answer. You need to keep doing it. Expect the first times to be awkward and for you to mess up completely. Use each time to strengthen our people skills and improve on what went wrong before. It's like talking in front of an audience. "Um...and...um..." It will get easier and you will feel more and more confident.