First of all your topic is "I want a woman's opinion," I was instantly drawn. Women love to give advice..lol. So to get a woman's attention in a good way, make conversation and listen to her...PAY attention to DETAIL. Let's say in a casual conversations she says I love (insert name of favorite football team). If you like her maybe you can surprise her with tickets, or a t shirt, or something. Women aren't hard to please...we just want attention.

1 you won't let me take you out,

2 you snubbed me in your flirt thread

Ok, kids! LOL

1. when did you ask me to go anywhere?

2. I made up for the snub.

shouldn't you GET A ROOM? LOL

what happens when you don't have much?

No, we’re exhibitionists.

only for the shallow ones

yeah good one...lets ENCOURAGE sterotypes..shesh!

agreed...and for before..on a thing like this..actually having something that is about YOU wrote, that shows who YOU are on your profile (i.e. HONESTY REALLY DOES MATTER TO "REAL WOMAN"). I know when I get a message or IM from someone I don't respond unless he has someone in his profile.

I am attracted to a guy with a BRAIN one who can carry on a conversation and can take care of himself..etc

lose the man perfume LOL just be sure to have bathed and put on deodorant, be your self, and go out with someone that you have a an ACTUAL interest in that goes past the physical.

true..that's very important

very true..just nodding going 'mm' 'mmm' and then not having a CLUE what she just said is not going to score any points!!

Be polite. Ask questions and show interest in her answers. Get to actually know her for who she is not who you percieve her as. Let her get to know you as well so be honest with answers to any questions that she might have. Be consistant. Don't blow hot one minute and cold the next. Make her feel like she is the one lady you have your eye on not like she is just one of many you may have interest in.


Just some ideas

my man got my attention when i was stranded at a gas station with nowhere to go, just coming off drugs, and had lost everything and everybody. he came and got me, took care of me while i detoxed, and got me back on track. im now doing better than i ever have before! he got me eating healthy for the first time in my life, i lost 45 pounds this way, and im even going to church again! he truly saved my life! i honestly believe if he hadnt done all this for me id be dead, cuz if he hadnt gotten me that night i probably would have gotten more drugs to kill the pain of loosing everything and everybody! im now in my familys life again, and am slowly gaining everything back! but most importantly, i now have a new family, jef and his two beautiful boys! but it did take him 3 yrs for me to realize he wasnt like the rest of the pigs out there and that he does truely love me! it takes time, thats all i can say!

I think "honesty" first and foremost... and "we all want to get "back" what we "give"...? Don't go far down a "one way street"...turn around, many roads to travel.

WOW