Topic: Pen Pals and Phone buddies
cfb62's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:01 AM
Hi to everyone, I'm somewhat new...

It seems many people are looking for pen pals and phone buddies only. Or is that just me and what I'm attracting?
Happy Sunday!


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Sun 08/24/08 08:03 AM
I see a little bit of everything going on here. drinker

cfb62's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:06 AM

I see a little bit of everything going on here. drinker


But what's the point of pen pals and phone buddies? Are there that many people who are anti-social and don't want what I would consider a "normal" relationship??? You know the kind where you actually get together???
Seriously, I don't get it.

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Sun 08/24/08 08:10 AM


I see a little bit of everything going on here. drinker


But what's the point of pen pals and phone buddies? Are there that many people who are anti-social and don't want what I would consider a "normal" relationship??? You know the kind where you actually get together???
Seriously, I don't get it.

I think there are a lot of long distance friendships happening here. People join it as a dating site but then turn to just socializing. I don't think I would label it as anti-social...but I see a lot of comments that they wish the ones they liked lived closer.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:10 AM
There are a lot of people here all looking for different things. From what I have seen, those who have found relationships were on here for a long time before finding someone. Patience is the key. flowerforyou

plk1966's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:10 AM
HI, you have been a member for almost a year. Why not try the forums, post and let people get to know you better.flowerforyou

cfb62's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:14 AM



I see a little bit of everything going on here. drinker


But what's the point of pen pals and phone buddies? Are there that many people who are anti-social and don't want what I would consider a "normal" relationship??? You know the kind where you actually get together???
Seriously, I don't get it.

I think there are a lot of long distance friendships happening here. People join it as a dating site but then turn to just socializing. I don't think I would label it as anti-social...but I see a lot of comments that they wish the ones they liked lived closer.


Thanks for the insight. That makes sense...

cfb62's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:15 AM

HI, you have been a member for almost a year. Why not try the forums, post and let people get to know you better.flowerforyou


I had just thrown up a profile and never really paid attention to this whole thing until this last week.
Thanks for the tip!!!

plk1966's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:16 AM


HI, you have been a member for almost a year. Why not try the forums, post and let people get to know you better.flowerforyou


I had just thrown up a profile and never really paid attention to this whole thing until this last week.
Thanks for the tip!!!

There are so many wonderful people here. Just have fun, the rest will come naturally!

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:17 AM
Edited by SweetButSpoiled on Sun 08/24/08 08:20 AM
My post disappeared when I hit edit! Anywho. My advice is similar to PLK. Be patient and check out the forums. I have noticed that you gotta socialize here to find people. The long distance thing really isn't for me, but different strokes for different folks.

scoundrel's photo
Sun 08/24/08 09:06 AM
Edited by scoundrel on Sun 08/24/08 09:07 AM

I had just thrown up a profile and never really paid attention to this whole thing until this last week.
Thanks for the tip!!!


Ever so eloquent.

Nobody else admits to 'throwing up a profile.'

Nor do they admit to not paying attention.

Kudos to you. Honesty ranks #1, here. flowerforyou