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If someone asks me a tough question...I am going to give that person the best answer I can. Sometimes, it works to my disadvantage, but I would rather answer truthfully and let the woman know what she's in for. 
I just figure that there are some things about me that may cause a woman to lose interest. Nothing major, but just stuff from my ( much ) younger years that have been factors in who I am and why I am the way I am. I think it's better to give them a heads up than to try to hide anything. What a lot of people haven't figured out is that EVERYONE has some sort of past, at least a couple of things that might make someone else blink twice, but one of the greatest aspects of real love, is to acceptance. No one is perfect, and if that's what one is looking for, they should take a look in the mirror first. Communication, trust, honesty, and acceptance are some of the most important things you have to have. Yeah, I know..........good luck with all that. JMO
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If someone asks me a tough question...I am going to give that person the best answer I can. Sometimes, it works to my disadvantage, but I would rather answer truthfully and let the woman know what she's in for.
I just figure that there are some things about me that may cause a woman to lose interest. Nothing major, but just stuff from my ( much ) younger years that have been factors in who I am and why I am the way I am. I think it's better to give them a heads up than to try to hide anything. What a lot of people haven't figured out is that EVERYONE has some sort of past, at least a couple of things that might make someone else blink twice, but one of the greatest aspects of real love, is to acceptance. No one is perfect, and if that's what one is looking for, they should take a look in the mirror first. Communication, trust, honesty, and acceptance are some of the most important things you have to have. Yeah, I know..........good luck with all that. JMO
Well said, Indigo.
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I don't lie in my profile...I really am Batman.
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If someone asks me a tough question...I am going to give that person the best answer I can. Sometimes, it works to my disadvantage, but I would rather answer truthfully and let the woman know what she's in for.
I just figure that there are some things about me that may cause a woman to lose interest. Nothing major, but just stuff from my ( much ) younger years that have been factors in who I am and why I am the way I am. I think it's better to give them a heads up than to try to hide anything. You know what? There are things that are personal to you.  No one likes someone who "pries". IF you just meet someone new, and you are a law abiding person, currently are not hiding anything in your life , then tell her you like her, respect her questions, but that you are uncomfortable . Tell her your past is your past, and if and when you get to know each other better, you will share. But please be upfront about your relationship to her.
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I don't lie in my profile...I really am Batman.
Don't worry, we believe you.  
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Thu 08/21/08 11:00 PM
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If someone asks me a tough question...I am going to give that person the best answer I can. Sometimes, it works to my disadvantage, but I would rather answer truthfully and let the woman know what she's in for.
I just figure that there are some things about me that may cause a woman to lose interest. Nothing major, but just stuff from my ( much ) younger years that have been factors in who I am and why I am the way I am. I think it's better to give them a heads up than to try to hide anything. You know what? There are things that are personal to you. No one likes someone who "pries". IF you just meet someone new, and you are a law abiding person, currently are not hiding anything in your life , then tell her you like her, respect her questions, but that you are uncomfortable . Tell her your past is your past, and if and when you get to know each other better, you will share. But please be upfront about your relationship to her.
But you are thinking that it makes me uncomfortable to answer the questions. Nothing could be further from the truth. I know that some of the things I have gone through have molded me into who I am. That's just the way life is. I have absolutely no problem answering something that a woman wants to know. It may take me a little bit to answer because I am thinking through my answer, but I will always answer. The way I figure it....if she asks the question, then she wants to know. If she realizes she DIDN'T want to know....she shouldn't have asked...lol Besides, why waste her time, and mine, if there is something that has the possibility of causing her to lose interest? |
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Edited by
PlumBlossom
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Thu 08/21/08 11:08 PM
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If someone asks me a tough question...I am going to give that person the best answer I can. Sometimes, it works to my disadvantage, but I would rather answer truthfully and let the woman know what she's in for.
I just figure that there are some things about me that may cause a woman to lose interest. Ok, I hear you on that, but I would never advise that you sit down and shake out all your dirty laundry for her on your 2nd date or your 3rd. Best of luck to you 
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If someone asks me a tough question...I am going to give that person the best answer I can. Sometimes, it works to my disadvantage, but I would rather answer truthfully and let the woman know what she's in for.
I just figure that there are some things about me that may cause a woman to lose interest. Ok, I hear you on that, but I would never advise that you sit down and shake out all your dirty laundry for her on your 2nd date or your 3rd. Best of luck to you
Oh it's nothing like that....lol The only time I actually do that kind of thing is when I think there may be a possibility of more later on. That's usually when they ( if THEY think the possibility is there as well ) will start asking the kinds of questions I am talking about.
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A lot of people these days like the chase....and love to play games. I have not come across hardly 1 girl on here who has been serious....I know I have a lot to talk to yet but, I've been hurt quite a bit on here....and it's because I found out the TRUTH on my own.... I had a couple of players and liars, two stalker wannabes, and one that asked me to move to where he was in his first email.......some of the onliners are definately different. It is sad though that as supposed serious, mature adults, some do not know what they really want, and hurt others in the process.
that's my point after all is said and done, if you plan on meeting someone in person you may as well tell them the truth about things in your past that may affect the relationship. if you start off lying, you have to keep lying |
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If someone asks me a tough question...I am going to give that person the best answer I can. Sometimes, it works to my disadvantage, but I would rather answer truthfully and let the woman know what she's in for.
I just figure that there are some things about me that may cause a woman to lose interest. Ok, I hear you on that, but I would never advise that you sit down and shake out all your dirty laundry for her on your 2nd date or your 3rd. Best of luck to you
Oh it's nothing like that....lol The only time I actually do that kind of thing is when I think there may be a possibility of more later on. That's usually when they ( if THEY think the possibility is there as well ) will start asking the kinds of questions I am talking about.
What if they never think if these possibilities & don't ask? Do you evently bring things up yourself? |
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If someone asks me a tough question...I am going to give that person the best answer I can. Sometimes, it works to my disadvantage, but I would rather answer truthfully and let the woman know what she's in for.
I just figure that there are some things about me that may cause a woman to lose interest. Ok, I hear you on that, but I would never advise that you sit down and shake out all your dirty laundry for her on your 2nd date or your 3rd. Best of luck to you
Oh it's nothing like that....lol The only time I actually do that kind of thing is when I think there may be a possibility of more later on. That's usually when they ( if THEY think the possibility is there as well ) will start asking the kinds of questions I am talking about.
What if they never think if these possibilities & don't ask? Do you evently bring things up yourself? if I feel it's important I will bring it up JMO |
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If someone asks me a tough question...I am going to give that person the best answer I can. Sometimes, it works to my disadvantage, but I would rather answer truthfully and let the woman know what she's in for.
I just figure that there are some things about me that may cause a woman to lose interest. Ok, I hear you on that, but I would never advise that you sit down and shake out all your dirty laundry for her on your 2nd date or your 3rd. Best of luck to you
Oh it's nothing like that....lol The only time I actually do that kind of thing is when I think there may be a possibility of more later on. That's usually when they ( if THEY think the possibility is there as well ) will start asking the kinds of questions I am talking about.
What if they never think if these possibilities & don't ask? Do you evently bring things up yourself? Yep. I will bring some things up after a while. Some sooner than others. I don't want to get involved with someone, only to have them find something out,and say " OMG!!! I didn't KNOW that!! " and then bolt. |
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What I have noticed many times some of the ones that are looking and say they are ready to find someone. Honestly they have not dealt with their issues in the past. Some have never gotten over the ex even though they say they have. When someone talks about and ex and their emotions get the best of them and it gets them upset there is still a lot of anger they have not come to terms with.
They must learn to deal with the past and put it to rest. In order to move on and be able to share yourself fully with another. Too many have this idea that finding someone will solve your problems and make you happy. But....in reality the only one that can truly make you happy is yourself. There are no quick fixes to life or love. |
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What I have noticed many times some of the ones that are looking and say they are ready to find someone. Honestly they have not dealt with their issues in the past. Some have never gotten over the ex even though they say they have. When someone talks about and ex and their emotions get the best of them and it gets them upset there is still a lot of anger they have not come to terms with. They must learn to deal with the past and put it to rest. In order to move on and be able to share yourself fully with another. Too many have this idea that finding someone will solve your problems and make you happy. But....in reality the only one that can truly make you happy is yourself. There are no quick fixes to life or love. Finally! Someone that gets what I am talking about. Thanks TxsGal
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I agree Txs.
In my case, it's not anything to do with an ex ( although for along time it was ) or anything that I haven't " put to rest ". It's just some things that have made me who I am. |
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This happens all the time when I do Tarot card readings for people. They ask to know the truth, I tell them and then they get mad because its not what they wanted to hear.
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The truth is , I'm just here for an " Intimate Encounter"
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The truth is , I'm just here for an " Intimate Encounter"
as long as you are upfront about that and not lead a person on with this and that and promises of the moon and stars and even pretend you like them and have an interest in them so they form some sort of emotional bond with ya....if you want an intimate encounter than it is just about physical attraction and you don't really have to get into details with someone about your life or ask about their's ... And if you just want an intimate encounter you have to make absolutely sure that is all they want to so they don't think there is a chance for more... |
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 I have nothing to declare, except my genius.
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The truth is , I'm just here for an " Intimate Encounter"
as long as you are upfront about that and not lead a person on with this and that and promises of the moon and stars and even pretend you like them and have an interest in them so they form some sort of emotional bond with ya....if you want an intimate encounter than it is just about physical attraction and you don't really have to get into details with someone about your life or ask about their's ... And if you just want an intimate encounter you have to make absolutely sure that is all they want to so they don't think there is a chance for more... Your new & you don't know me & that's ok, but It's a joke, I'm hardly ever serious in the forums
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