Topic: Why.......
Tanzkity's photo
Thu 08/21/08 05:35 PM

Sista.......this is kindergarden to me..........you havent been on a lot of websites have you???noway laugh laugh laugh noway






Actually I have and this is the only site where I dont even have the urge to meet someone since the site has so much bs..............I have actually a slew of sites and in the other ones I know im dealing with adults but this one is like SECOND LIFE...............

Jim519's photo
Thu 08/21/08 05:43 PM


is there so many psycho freakin people on this site.........and they freakin bullies............wtf


It's the internet...you can be anyone you want to be.

I'm Batman.smokin


Wait just one minute! It's my turn to be Batman!!!laugh

Jim519's photo
Thu 08/21/08 05:44 PM


Sista.......this is kindergarden to me..........you havent been on a lot of websites have you???noway laugh laugh laugh noway






Actually I have and this is the only site where I dont even have the urge to meet someone since the site has so much bs..............I have actually a slew of sites and in the other ones I know im dealing with adults but this one is like SECOND LIFE...............



Dont you have a boyfriend?

Tanzkity's photo
Thu 08/21/08 05:55 PM
You know Jim I can have friends cant i and yes I do have a boyfriend so the hell what..............by the way tell that to the guys who keep emailing me because I tell them too...............why are you all up on me..............

Jim519's photo
Fri 08/22/08 05:43 AM

You know Jim I can have friends cant i and yes I do have a boyfriend so the hell what..............by the way tell that to the guys who keep emailing me because I tell them too...............why are you all up on me..............



Because it is fun and just calling you out. You indicate "This is a dating site"

You also indicate "I am on a slew of sites"

If thats the case, and you have a boyfriend, how can you afford to be on a slew of sites, dating sites at that...but yet manage a relationship? Why does it matter so much if you have a boyfriend?


lilith401's photo
Fri 08/22/08 05:47 AM

I think some people forgot to take their meds..............its getting ridiculous..........this isnt a dating site its a let me degrade someone for having an opinion........


Sometimes it can be, sure. What I find helpful is depersonalizing a post. I try to read it in an objective way and realize it's not about me.

At times, things hit a nerve no matter what. If that happens, I try, try, to remember I don't know the poster's experiences, feelings, current mood, attitude, etc.

What should be aimed for is a rational debate, and to not think it is about me. It's not....

Jim519's photo
Fri 08/22/08 05:59 AM


I think some people forgot to take their meds..............its getting ridiculous..........this isnt a dating site its a let me degrade someone for having an opinion........


Sometimes it can be, sure. What I find helpful is depersonalizing a post. I try to read it in an objective way and realize it's not about me.

At times, things hit a nerve no matter what. If that happens, I try, try, to remember I don't know the poster's experiences, feelings, current mood, attitude, etc.

What should be aimed for is a rational debate, and to not think it is about me. It's not....



((((lilith)))) good to see you flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Fri 08/22/08 06:04 AM
Good morning, (((Jim)))!

bad_girl's photo
Fri 08/22/08 06:05 AM
Unfortunately, some people have no couth or class. But all-in-all, most of the people on here are awesome. You know there is always an exception to the rule though

Tanzkity's photo
Fri 08/22/08 09:55 AM


You know Jim I can have friends cant i and yes I do have a boyfriend so the hell what..............by the way tell that to the guys who keep emailing me because I tell them too...............why are you all up on me..............



Because it is fun and just calling you out. You indicate "This is a dating site"

You also indicate "I am on a slew of sites"

If thats the case, and you have a boyfriend, how can you afford to be on a slew of sites, dating sites at that...but yet manage a relationship? Why does it matter so much if you have a boyfriend?




It doesnt but you are the one who keeps mentioning my bf...........wow you have some damn nerve...............and by the way you are hella OFF TOPIC................you know im starting to get flattered its cute your keeping tabs................are you hinting at something.............:wink:

lilith401's photo
Fri 08/22/08 09:57 AM
I've been around a bit longer than you and seen many folk like yourself come and go..... and think I can pretty safely say that I don't think Jim likes your attitude.

Personally? I think you are defensive A LOT.


Tanzkity's photo
Fri 08/22/08 10:01 AM

I've been around a bit longer than you and seen many folk like yourself come and go..... and think I can pretty safely say that I don't think Jim likes your attitude.

Personally? I think you are defensive A LOT.




Well here is the pot calling the kettle black............for your info its not a popularity contest and i dont give a damn what you and good old Jim think..................you have no effect on my life........i sleep just fine...............laugh laugh laugh

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Fri 08/22/08 10:03 AM

is there so many psycho freakin people on this site.........and they freakin bullies............wtf


Sorry to say, we all have some form of psychosis......just some of it have it worse than others....
the voices wont leave me alone...its not me who is bad....the voices say i will be hurt if i dont submit to their will...

Just kiddin'...I thinkwaving

franshade's photo
Fri 08/22/08 10:03 AM

is there so many psycho freakin people on this site.........and they freakin bullies............wtf


I'd chalk it up to differences in personalities. I have yet to chat w/any psycho freaking people nor bullies. (yayyyyyyyy me)

Like in the real world there are those who are adamant in their views and opinions and those that take things personally.


lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Fri 08/22/08 10:04 AM


Sista.......this is kindergarden to me..........you havent been on a lot of websites have you???noway laugh laugh laugh noway






Actually I have and this is the only site where I dont even have the urge to meet someone since the site has so much bs..............I have actually a slew of sites and in the other ones I know im dealing with adults but this one is like SECOND LIFE...............


savage garden has a song about this....called "Santa Monica"...

Jim519's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:28 AM



You know Jim I can have friends cant i and yes I do have a boyfriend so the hell what..............by the way tell that to the guys who keep emailing me because I tell them too...............why are you all up on me..............



Because it is fun and just calling you out. You indicate "This is a dating site"

You also indicate "I am on a slew of sites"

If thats the case, and you have a boyfriend, how can you afford to be on a slew of sites, dating sites at that...but yet manage a relationship? Why does it matter so much if you have a boyfriend?




It doesnt but you are the one who keeps mentioning my bf...........wow you have some damn nerve...............and by the way you are hella OFF TOPIC................you know im starting to get flattered its cute your keeping tabs................are you hinting at something.............:wink:


oopsofftopic :laughing: :laughing:

Hinting?....Ok, you finally figured me out :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: I just adore argumentative man hating women...That's totally my turn on....

bad_girl's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:33 AM
{{{jim}}} Good Morning Handsomeblushing

Joaverage's photo
Sat 08/23/08 04:03 AM
{{{Jim}}} Welcome back. You've been missed.

Jim519's photo
Sat 08/23/08 04:48 AM

{{{jim}}} Good Morning Handsomeblushing


Good morning beautiful :wink: flowerforyou

Jim519's photo
Sat 08/23/08 04:49 AM

{{{Jim}}} Welcome back. You've been missed.


((((jo)))) good morning and thank you! I dont come in as much as i used to, but still check in from time to time :wink: flowerforyou