I never been on a date. How sad is that? I mean really. There is no one no that feel like that. Like you aren't wanted. That is like that worse feeling to have really. I mean i sit home cause most of my friends are getting married. I am like that is crazy. Everyone is getting that marring dease and can't get away from it. I don't want to get married all i am saying that i want to go out and have fun with a GUY that is MINE. I'm i being to needie or is that just what a girl wants that has never been on a date.

I'm sorry?

Denise I know how that feels i've never been on a real date either...a planned date always turns into a booty call for me.
I am nearly 25 and most of my friends are married and starting families. I just wanna know what it's like to be in love with someone.

U are 20..that's a little young to get married..just relax and chill.
Love is a funny thing..and it usually happens when u least expect it.

what i was meaning to say is that i don't want to get married i just want to have fun sometime you know i'm tired of the games i know that i am 20 but you know you kind of get tired of games you know

For most men that is what a first date is, a booty call..lol
You just have to make it more than that..it's really up to us, to make the date intellectual stimulating..while the guy is trying to get into your pants, you got to dazzle him w/ your personality.:P

Im gonna be 38 in a lil over a month and trust me honey the games you speak of....never go away...get use to it.. but never tolerate it

Give it time your young my daughter did not date till she was 20 no reason other then she was always busy at school well besides no one had asked her. Humm go figure her first date was 3 years ago with a boy she went to church with and is a Fireman to this day they are still dating.

She told me she waited to find her a good one and she did indeed.


They say good things come to those that wait.

ummmmmmm

Have you ever asked anyone for a date????

Shshshs I will be 50 in a couple of weeks and believe me the games are still the same just with an added twist at times.

yea i want a good man. i want a man not a boy for one cause you can't raise them there mom should have done that and now that i think tabout it why i am trying to rush something that will happen on its own

Well w/ u being 20 I am guessing the guys that u are interested in are around 20-25..well men are not ready to settle down at that age..they don't have a biological clock ticking like we do..so the more the merrier..its not about that one girl..mostly at that age i's about variety..and there are some headgames, and playing involved..just don't fall for it...I know it's hard..
As far as the dating thing goes..sometimes you as the girl will have to make the first move...some guys are just shy, and prefer a girl to make the first move.

no i am haven't

Well, try it. What you're doing now (nothing) isn't working.... so go do something and you'll find you have way less time to gripe.

About 10 percent of the time it's because some woman asked me out. Strange as it sounds it has happened, so guys don't give up completely. I've never turned a woman down for a date. I figure, she's at least got taste, so I should at least see if we have the possibility of getting along.



this was posted on another thread.....might help..???