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I would like to know?how could you be with some one for 6 years.Come home and all your things are in the yard.what do you have to do to kept the flame alive???????? Does life have to be so hard????Cant we all get along a drink a beer??????
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Is this the start of a country western song?
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I got the beer
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 So sorry about what happened to you.  Take a break and think about it.  Everything happens for a reason.  There is probably someone special out there looking for you and the old one was just taking up your time.  I wish you the best and think the girl that said "is this the start of a country western song" was being cold hearted.  I think if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything.  Best of luck to you and I hope you find someone lots better than the one you had.
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Is this the start of a country western song? Could be a good start. YEEEEEE HAAAAAAW!!! Working all day at the cattle ranch Come home to find my stuff in the yard Oh why does life have to be so hard Oh my wife does not love me no more Now here I sit at a bar with a glass of beer Strolling down my face is this one lonely tear Thinking oh why does life have to be so hard My wife threw my stuff in the yard. |
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<--------- I've got the cat
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such is life...drink heavily and forget about it....cheers
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Wow!!! I'm so sorry that happened to you.
Do you think she was trying to communicate all along and you didn't listen, or was she just that brash and mean, kept it all in and just POPPED? How awful!!! Bless yourheart!
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Rarely things just happen out of the blue. Did you bother to listen to what she had to say for 5 out of the 6 years you were together????
When something keeps happening and you keep getting the same results sometimes people just give up and it doesnt have to be anything that broke the camels back or the last straw.....
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If life was easy then there will be no lessons to learn
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Best way to find out why things happened and how to prevent a repeat experience is to see a personal, FEMALE, counselor (psychologist).
I say FEMALE counselor because you get a better understanding of the things you did and went through from the female point of view. Another man's (male counselor) point of view will be limited by the male perspective and that won't help you at all. |
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too bad you couldnt see a hermaphrodite councellor.....to get the best of both worlds!!!
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Is this the start of a country western song? Could be a good start. YEEEEEE HAAAAAAW!!! Working all day at the cattle ranch Come home to find my stuff in the yard Oh why does life have to be so hard Oh my wife does not love me no more Now here I sit at a bar with a glass of beer Strolling down my face is this one lonely tear Thinking oh why does life have to be so hard My wife threw my stuff in the yard.
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Is this the start of a country western song? Could be a good start. YEEEEEE HAAAAAAW!!! Working all day at the cattle ranch Come home to find my stuff in the yard Oh why does life have to be so hard Oh my wife does not love me no more Now here I sit at a bar with a glass of beer Strolling down my face is this one lonely tear Thinking oh why does life have to be so hard My wife threw my stuff in the yard.
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Best way to find out why things happened and how to prevent a repeat experience is to see a personal, FEMALE, counselor (psychologist). I say FEMALE counselor because you get a better understanding of the things you did and went through from the female point of view. Another man's (male counselor) point of view will be limited by the male perspective and that won't help you at all. Ummm..... BULLCRAP. I work with psychologists and I can tell you this sort of bias rarely exists. As we are all people, there is the potentiality of this happening, but Psychs are professional and as such, objective. If you want an understanding of what the other person's views are, learn EMPATHY and COMMUNICATION. True story. |
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i think its just a question to ask of yourself... cause deep down only you and your partner really know the answers... and the answers may not be the same... and just think about the way you handled things... and maybe try to see some flaws.. fix the flaws<if any>, rather the other person had them or not doesnt matter what matters is you now... you cant change the past or change another person.. good luck and hope you become happier
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Edited by
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Wed 08/20/08 10:07 AM
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Best way to find out why things happened and how to prevent a repeat experience is to see a personal, FEMALE, counselor (psychologist). I say FEMALE counselor because you get a better understanding of the things you did and went through from the female point of view. Another man's (male counselor) point of view will be limited by the male perspective and that won't help you at all. Ummm..... BULLCRAP. I work with psychologists and I can tell you this sort of bias rarely exists. As we are all people, there is the potentiality of this happening, but Psychs are professional and as such, objective. If you want an understanding of what the other person's views are, learn EMPATHY and COMMUNICATION. True story. |
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If you want an understanding of what the other person's views are, learn EMPATHY and COMMUNICATION. True story. What a novel idea, where would one learn about such things as empathy communication and compassion to boot? 
I hear people say all the time, he/she left me for no reason...THERE'S ALWAYS A REASON... It may be you or it may be them, but there is a reason. |
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Im thinkin if your stuff is in the yard its prolly a bit to late...
heres another question...I see all these threads people post about why is my man/woman pissed at me?? what did i do wrong??? My first response would be....DOES HE/SHE KNOW YOURE ON A DATING SITE???? |
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Im thinkin if your stuff is in the yard its prolly a bit to late... heres another question...I see all these threads people post about why is my man/woman pissed at me?? what did i do wrong??? My first response would be....DOES HE/SHE KNOW YOURE ON A DATING SITE???? Missy.... LMFAO!!!! Nope. They had omelettes and cheesy potatoes in bed this morning while they made sweet love and made plans for retirement. There was no problem until he suddenly returned home to find his belongings outside. There were no warning, no arguments, and no misdeeds. Certainly not belonging to a dating site. For shame!!! 
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