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What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end".
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It ended for a reason....
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My thought exactly Ms Giggle
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What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end". As a general rule, I try to avoid that situation. There have been a few times when I felt justified making an exception. I think a lot of it depends on the actual reason(s) for the breakup -- drugs? No second chance there, for example. I'm not going to deal with that again. Other things need to be looked at in other ways. |
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It might be better than no-love
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An ex is an ex for a reason.. NO!
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What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end". |
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Ok maybe a lil more explanation would help lol
He had a psycho ex wife that would interfere in any relationship he had.....since then? He has moved away from her and it didn't have to do with "us nothing wanting to be together"....it was a matter of sanity! lol |
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Have to ask myself what's changed to get the relationship to have a different outcome. If nothing has changed chances are I'll get the same outcome and won't start the relationship again.
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Have to ask myself what's changed to get the relationship to have a different outcome. If nothing has changed chances are I'll get the same outcome and won't start the relationship again. I had that thought come across my mind |
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What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end". Wow! No optimism people???? |
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What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end". There are few questions that you need to ask yourself. 1). Do you still love him? 2). Was he a good friend before, during, and after the relation ship ended. If the your answer yes to ALL the above questions proceed to the next set of questions. If the answer is no, to ANY of the above questions, forget him. 3). Was he a mistake? 4). Is he best forgotten? 5). Did he betray your trust? If the answer is yes to ANY of the questions from 3-5, then run as fast as you can from him. If the answer is NO, then you have a decision to make. |
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i'm thinkin' don't rule it out...but think it through carefully...that's my optimism for the day
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What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end". There are few questions that you need to ask yourself. 1). Do you still love him? 2). Was he a good friend before, during, and after the relation ship ended. If the your answer yes to ALL the above questions proceed to the next set of questions. If the answer is no, to ANY of the above questions, forget him. 3). Was he a mistake? 4). Is he best forgotten? 5). Did he betray your trust? If the answer is yes to ANY of the questions from 3-5, then run as fast as you can from him. If the answer is NO, then you have a decision to make. All no's so, now what??? lol |
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i kinda know what ya mean...but there must have been some bad chemistry or somthin or you couldnt stand to be apart
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i'm thinkin' don't rule it out...but think it through carefully...that's my optimism for the day ty ty lol |
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What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end". There are few questions that you need to ask yourself. 1). Do you still love him? 2). Was he a good friend before, during, and after the relation ship ended. If the your answer yes to ALL the above questions proceed to the next set of questions. If the answer is no, to ANY of the above questions, forget him. 3). Was he a mistake? 4). Is he best forgotten? 5). Did he betray your trust? If the answer is yes to ANY of the questions from 3-5, then run as fast as you can from him. If the answer is NO, then you have a decision to make. All no's so, now what??? lol Well, maybe then you are better as just friends |
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i kinda know what ya mean...but there must have been some bad chemistry or somthin or you couldnt stand to be apart No bad chemistry....just a bad ex wife LOL Chemistry was never the problem. And I also moved away for 3 yrs.....we never lost touch and stayed very good friends. |
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What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end". There are few questions that you need to ask yourself. 1). Do you still love him? 2). Was he a good friend before, during, and after the relation ship ended. If the your answer yes to ALL the above questions proceed to the next set of questions. If the answer is no, to ANY of the above questions, forget him. 3). Was he a mistake? 4). Is he best forgotten? 5). Did he betray your trust? If the answer is yes to ANY of the questions from 3-5, then run as fast as you can from him. If the answer is NO, then you have a decision to make. All no's so, now what??? lol Well, maybe then you are better as just friends Ok I missed number 1! OOPS! lol make that 1 yes and the rest no's. didn't know it was a test |
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