its been 3 days since i joined in and im really having fun. people are
so nice and accomodating..

i still dont know much about the site and would love to chat with also
the females, especially the single moms also for advise...

maseygirl

welcome massy

hello..im still a bit shy here..

you're allowed to be

okey, so for newbies like me, what should i know...ive read the do's and
donts for the males..but what about for the females?

just tryin on my luck here...and of course i like having a lot of
friends..

well you can limit the age of people you chat with and e-mail but you
may miss some very nice people and age really doesn't have to do with
good advice come to these forum's alot and have fun some very good
people on here also some not so nice but just weed them out

i don't think it's too hard to tell when someone's being funny or being
mean when they're typing any more than it is face to face

okey, thats a good start. it would be nice to get views from different
sorts of people..

m actually just a nice young lady trying this out coz i got tired of
meeting all the wrong ones personally, so i thought..why not find out
about the person first before getting into the actual relationship..

that would save me a lot of time, effort and heartaches..

and i noticed that most of the people here are in for the same
reasons..that is just sooo cool..

i hope i dont get any sleazy messages...that would scare the hell out of
me..

those messages come frome the younger newer people i tihnk also you can
put a distance from you that you prefer but remember the one for you may
be an ocean away and waiting and hoping
you know like say you want someone within 100 miles or such if you want
to you can do that

do you want to hear something funny?

go for it..

the other day in this forum a woman said she was widowed and new to the
sight and looking to make friend's i said welcome to her and she
e-mailed me and said "thank you for the welcome but your far to young" [
i thought to myself i'm to young to say welcome to the sight and be
friendly with] hahaha

point is not everyone on here is after so much out of everyone or just
because they chat doesn't mean the chase is on keep that in mind i guess

so when you meant wide range of age , you meant it huh?..


so far, since i posted myself in this community board, i've gotten
invites to dancing, gotten a kiss, and a cheesy offer...

can i just announce that i only want to talk to the NICE GUYS?
please?..is that too much to ask?

and not just guys..i just wuna talk to NICE people...im still getting
myself warmed up here

i know just what you mean,,and the mix is huge,you'll find some who turn
you off as soon as they open thier mouth or turn you on as sonn as they
walk in just bare in mind that not everyone is trying to jump someone as
quick as some and i would alway's be kind to anyone i meet anywhere,,
but not everyone is like that

can i tell you a story about my first 30 minutes on this site?

yes you can

and not everyone's pic is real ,nor does there pic mean they're nice
people

i was on my first few minutes, which was just a few days ago when i
chanced on sending a message to this guy..(i wont mention his name or
handle..we exchanged a few messages and i honestly think that we
connected..its just that he hasnt gone on line since..

and i have been checking for the last 3 days for him..

ive been ignoring the rest of the messages from the others coz of
him..well, not actually ignoring but, i was just being friendly with the
rest coz i was waiting for him..

we talked about loyalty and trust..so its gunna be totally weird of me
to just entertain other men after having felt a conection with someone..

this may sound stupid ...but as i said..im new at this people.. should i
have a timer limit for this guy? like in another week, if he doesnt
respond... then i just forget about it..