whats rong with telling a woman she looks nice,,,,if they really do look nice

Usually is after a conversation in the forums, and I thank them for having a good sense of humor, being willing to play along, a different perspective, etc. Maybe mention something from their profile, or a shared interest.

Exactly.

And no sending e-mails of wanting to marry the e-mail recipient, either- I ended up getting such a message, and it's rather creepy.

Hiya E!

I agree with you! Got one a couple of days ago that said something like , hello 2 u, u are really beautiful, I would like 2 get to know u a LOT better"

PLEASE lose the "2" and the "u"'s!!

IF I am going to send out the first email...it's because something about her interests me.

I don't care how beautiful she is. If there is nothing in her profile that gets my attention, there won't be an email.

If I see something in her profile, I'll try to mention that in my email.

Of course, I have sent out emails to a couple of women here just cuz I wanted to be friendly. No particular interest level other than friends. Those are the easy ones to send....lol

I do agree with you, Joe.

Problem is, very few women are good at taking compliments, and a lot of them have been complimented by guys who had ulterior motives and weren't particularly sincere.

That makes the guys who say something like " I think you are beautiful " and actually mean it, get the ole eye roll.

Oh come on!!! What's wrong with getting an email from a guy who is too lazy to type the words " to " and " you "??

The attention span of a gnat can be a GOOD thing....lmao

We wouldn't want to find out what else he's lazy about.

Or like the attention of a mosquito, which can be constant, annoying, and single-purpose, and leaves an itchy sensation that you will claw out to be rid of.

Well you ARE beautiful, I think the proper response would be "thank you". At least you got E mail & it wasn't nasty.

It happens to guys too......

How about, "I'd like to see the rest of that tatoo on your right hip. If there's a story to go with it, that would be appreciated, because I am interested in why pretty people get tatoos."

Yup...in your case. I've seen you used as a sort of yardstick, to compare other big guys. "He was as big and muscled as bikedog!"

Uh, thanks for the etiquette lesson.

I luvs ya but,that would be a NO!

You're welcome.

Score 2 points for the nice (smart) lady!!

Maybe he has dyslexia or just doesn’t want to risk having a seizure by typing too many words. Maybe the guy is worn out from working all day and is staring at your picture in the dark doing dirty dirty things to him self and is having a problem concentrating on the keyboard. Or maybe just maybe he realizes that the chance of hooking up with you is remote and not really worth the investment that you seem to want…where there is smoke there is fire. So he just does not give a crap. Just a thought. Your still beautiful… any bikini shots available????