I don't go by looks, you should see my ex!

Yep.. and that fits right into the ways of the world.

Usually (because there will always be exception, but we are not going to talk about the one out of 100. We are talking about the 99 others)... so Usually,

Men are visual.. we go for the looks and visual cues. It is our nature. The visual cues for health and child birthing. Our artificial culture has warp that visual cues to binding something sexual.

Women are looking for Provider, security and leadership. Ugly OLD fat guy with the right confidence and attitude can be the Man of your dreams.

Well.....we're different sex, but my ex is butt ugly!!!!!

I knew her and cared for her a long time before we ever met.....when I did!!! I said "my God.....what have I gotten myself into??" As we went along....the way she treated me and acted with me and everything else......

She got prettier and prettier!!!!!

Course she's been back to butt ugly for quite some time now.....

no why bother the relationship won't go anywhere you have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted.

My attraction is personality...so probably a no go, but I might go on the first date just to see. Never know, could be pleasantly surprised.

I don't have to be physically attracted to a man. I go straight for the heart!
To me, Heart is where you find beauty.

And some hearts are so ugly!

DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER........

......IT'S WHAT'S ON THE INSIDE THAT COUNTS



WHAT MAY BE UGLY TO YOU, MAY BE BEAUTIFUL TO SOMEOME ELSE

i call B.S. on that one look just being honest

you either will date a man for his money

or you date him because you are attracted to him, I personally will not go on a date with a man that I find unattractive , why bother if you find him ugly everytime you look at him he is still going to be ugly, sure they can have a good heart most people do and they can be friends, i'm just saying that you have to be attracted in all aspects to someone to have it work out. Otherwise, one of their little habits that get on your nerves will break the relationship, or you won't bother fighting for the relationship ,e tc. why bother if you can find something better?

I know EXACTLY what you mean.
Except she hasn't gotten uglier.

Sometimes the light hits the right way and you would have to say "wow".

I am not an amateur... I am a professional Photographer. I see faces all the time. I am a Master of my lights. There are some pretty ugly faces that I have to make them look good and thin.

The really weird faces are foreigners. You guys probably won't notice.. but symmetry makes someone look attractive. I have seen some really weird shape heads. I mean it is either too left sided or right sided. You can't tell it is lopsided unless they are facing straight at you and you are calibrating their eyes ears and nose. It is like at child birth the doctor didn't know how to get the child out. (I was born in China... so I am not perfect either.)

Look inside of the person. He may have a beautiful soul...

never judge a book by it's cover

if you mean their outside then yes i would.

Yes I would, I am not all that so why should I judge anyone based on looks.

Honestly, no.

My decision on whether I would or would not date someone is not determine by his physical presense.

Attractive to me is the mind. No, I would not want to go. We would argue the entire time. No fun there!

My friend whom I set up on a blind date in my place and dating that same girl the whole summer told me the reason why he broke up. This guy is pure gentlemen Army Officer and Honest and Loyal (I've seem him under pressure and never compromised his values) told me "Looks does matter."