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Topic: Attracted to another person
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 08/13/08 11:17 PM
If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much?

yaya28 Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1341	Wed 08/13/08 11:18 PM
no I think it's human to notice other attractive people.

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/13/08 11:19 PM
If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much? no its not cheating! were all human and look. but flirting and touching is cheating

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Wed 08/13/08 11:20 PM
Still on the book ha? As long as you are respectful and include your main squeeze its all good.......

jml999 Joined Wed 08/13/08 Posts: 4	Wed 08/13/08 11:24 PM
If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much? no its not cheating! were all human and look. but flirting and touching is cheating I have to disagree.... flirting is not cheating. Touching is. It is natural to flirt with another person that you are attracted to... just don't take it any further.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 08/13/08 11:24 PM
Still on the book ha? As long as you are respectful and include your main squeeze its all good.......

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Wed 08/13/08 11:24 PM
IMO there are different kinds of attraction: intellectual, physical, sexual, spiritual, etc.

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/13/08 11:25 PM
If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much? no its not cheating! were all human and look. but flirting and touching is cheating I have to disagree.... flirting is not cheating. Touching is. It is natural to flirt with another person that you are attracted to... just don't take it any further. yes thats true never thought of it that way, but your right

yaya28 Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1341	Wed 08/13/08 11:28 PM
If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much? no its not cheating! were all human and look. but flirting and touching is cheating I have to disagree.... flirting is not cheating. Touching is. It is natural to flirt with another person that you are attracted to... just don't take it any further. Flirting is playing with fire, so it is cheating in the premeditated sense.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Wed 08/13/08 11:28 PM
If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much? I once dated a simease twin and IM STILL FEELING LIKE I CHEATED!!!!

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/13/08 11:32 PM
No matter who you are with and/or how long you been with them... attraction to another is bound to happen and is normal... it's about ACTING on it that gets one in trouble!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 08/13/08 11:35 PM
If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much? I once dated a simease twin and IM STILL FEELING LIKE I CHEATED!!!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 08/13/08 11:35 PM
IMO there are different kinds of attraction: intellectual, physical, sexual, spiritual, etc. I agree

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Wed 08/13/08 11:41 PM
Just because you've already ordered, doesn't mean you can't still read the menu But if you start asking for samples, it's a different story!

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Wed 08/13/08 11:45 PM
Just because you've already ordered, doesn't mean you can't still read the menu But if you start asking for samples, it's a different story! Well said!!! LOL

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Wed 08/13/08 11:47 PM
no I think it's human to notice other attractive people. true dat!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 08/13/08 11:51 PM
Nah. I look at sheep. My girl sees nothing wrong with it.

yaya28 Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1341	Thu 08/14/08 11:13 PM
When I'm dating someone I don't even chat online. I know it sounds dumb but it's something I feel is disrespectful. It's his choice if he wants to chat etc.....but I don't.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 08/14/08 11:31 PM
If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much? An attraction is one thing. If you are in love with someone, and they love you just as much, then being attracted to someone else won't matter. It's gonna happen. It's just part of who we are. Trick is not to act on that attraction.