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ladypegasus's photo
Thu 08/14/08 12:28 AM
She gave you her address so obviously she likes at least a little. When you are comfortable with it , explain the situation(lost in city) and ask if she would mind if you followed her the first time. That way you will know how to get there.

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Thu 08/14/08 12:31 AM
Fear...if you are new to the city and don't know your way around all that well...and she has already given her your address...

Why don't you just tell her that you haven't lived there long and would really like it if she showed you around.

That way, you are telling her you would like to go out with her....without the added pressure of " hanging out at her place ".

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Thu 08/14/08 12:34 AM
If she goes in often and she's a regular maybe she trying to start a friendship or maybe she is just doing what a lot of people do when they feel like they should do something cause they think its the right thing to do and they were placed in a situation that being less honest of what they are saying would glide them out of an awkward situation, hence whatever conversation you guys might have had that was her way of inviting you with an empty follow thru.... Ive done it!embarassed

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Thu 08/14/08 12:36 AM

If she goes in often and she's a regular maybe she trying to start a friendship or maybe she is just doing what a lot of people do when they feel like they should do something cause they think its the right thing to do and they were placed in a situation that being less honest of what they are saying would glide them out of an awkward situation, hence whatever conversation you guys might have had that was her way of inviting you with an empty follow thru.... Ive done it!embarassed



I had to read that twice, and I'm still not sure I got the gist of it.

She has given him her address. That doesn't seem like " empty follow through " to me.

Unless I am missing something, which is entirely possible...lol

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Thu 08/14/08 12:41 AM


If she goes in often and she's a regular maybe she trying to start a friendship or maybe she is just doing what a lot of people do when they feel like they should do something cause they think its the right thing to do and they were placed in a situation that being less honest of what they are saying would glide them out of an awkward situation, hence whatever conversation you guys might have had that was her way of inviting you with an empty follow thru.... Ive done it!embarassed



I had to read that twice, and I'm still not sure I got the gist of it.

She has given him her address. That doesn't seem like " empty follow through " to me.

Unless I am missing something, which is entirely possible...lol





I am saying just cause she gave him her address doesn't mean anything...why not her number? What if its not her address and just a pizza joint down the road...he did say he doesn't know his way around. flowerforyou

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Thu 08/14/08 12:46 AM



If she goes in often and she's a regular maybe she trying to start a friendship or maybe she is just doing what a lot of people do when they feel like they should do something cause they think its the right thing to do and they were placed in a situation that being less honest of what they are saying would glide them out of an awkward situation, hence whatever conversation you guys might have had that was her way of inviting you with an empty follow thru.... Ive done it!embarassed



I had to read that twice, and I'm still not sure I got the gist of it.

She has given him her address. That doesn't seem like " empty follow through " to me.

Unless I am missing something, which is entirely possible...lol





I am saying just cause she gave him her address doesn't mean anything...why not her number? What if its not her address and just a pizza joint down the road...he did say he doesn't know his way around. flowerforyou


Ok. So that was what I was missing....lolflowerforyou

Actually...the fake address HAD occurred to me.

Why not her number?? No phone, maybe? I know these days it would seem impossible for someone to NOT have one...but stranger things have happened.

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Thu 08/14/08 01:47 AM
Let's add another predicament to this situation, I'm only going to be here for another six months before I move (I move around a lot)...I don't want to lead anything on, as it will not happen in that way. She is a sweet girl and I don't want to hurt her feelings in anyway.

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Thu 08/14/08 01:50 AM
if you are interested id go for it. tell her you would love to take her up on the offer to hang out. suggest something like a movie, coffee, or whatever...if it comes up to go back to her place or yours, make you decision then. go for the gusto sweets! im cheering for ya darlin!! drinker

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Thu 08/14/08 01:51 AM

Let's add another predicament to this situation, I'm only going to be here for another six months before I move (I move around a lot)...I don't want to lead anything on, as it will not happen in that way. She is a sweet girl and I don't want to hurt her feelings in anyway.

be upfront with it. you never know...she may be a reason to stay (wink wink)

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Thu 08/14/08 01:52 AM


Let's add another predicament to this situation, I'm only going to be here for another six months before I move (I move around a lot)...I don't want to lead anything on, as it will not happen in that way. She is a sweet girl and I don't want to hurt her feelings in anyway.

be upfront with it. you never know...she may be a reason to stay (wink wink)


As much as I'd like to agree with you, the chances are slim...there are about two things I'd stick around here for, one of them is my own bar with free drinks and the other is marijuana to be legal. One of those actually has a chance.

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