i had to take the dog out so i wasnt here for most of the disscusion but i read the coments and i am not talking about like paying for dinner or bills or stuff like that. what im refering to is, if they find out that im on ssi and have no job i go to every day even tho i get a monthly check they always tell me im not there type or we could be friends or it not you its me or some old line like that. i dont own a car or a house but i am still capable of loveing someone forever, i know you guys are going to say move on or try finding new places to hang out or there not right for you but ive herd it most of my life and im 44 i dont know what to do

whoot whoot

GET A JOB ,GET A CAR and a House .Then call me

I don't know what to tell you in the form of advice, but it is sadly unfortunate that a lot of people judge someone for money, possessions, looks, job/career, instead of their character, morals/values, humour, heart.

i ask for real help and your sitting there chewing me up and spitting me out like everyone does

at least you understand and thats more than most

Both my brothers are on disability,(one has passed)Both of them found good wives that had good jobs. They went out and did things to meet people. One brother went back to being a stick in the mud, stay home all day, doing nothing and his wife left him, there were other reasons too.

If you keep doing what you are doing now, you will keep getting the same results. YOU must do the changing.

"Man sit with mouth open very long time before roasted duck fly in"
If it ain't working after 44 yrs, it ain't ever going to work.
Do something different, get different results.

Just volunteering sometimes helps to meet people and make you feel good in the process...
anybody could become disabled for any reason at any time...

you can make your life better by extending yourself however you still can!!!

good luck