Hey.everyone.. i'm single.. and i just find that guys only want to
date... they don't want to label it... boyfriend and gurlfriend, they
simply want the cake. I'll say gurls as well... but i'm into guys =) Can
someone let me know why?

WELL SWEETIE ,I AM SINGLE MYSELF AND I HAVE BEEN SINGLE LIKE 3 MONTHS
NOW,AND THE REASON I DONT WANT A GIRL FRIEND IS BECAUSE I JUST GOT OUT
OF ONE AND I WANT TO BREATH,JUST LIKE BEING FREE FOR NOW.

today's society, no commitment whatsoever

A lot of friends prefer to date only and they hate labels cuz implies
commitment. Most single men someone are on the look out for someone
better – prettier, sexier or more chemistry

seems that way doesnt it? noone wants to commit..truthfully i'd like to
just date right now, have fun, etc..see where it goes..damn i dont want
to be alone 4-ever..who does??

Krystal, I have a girlfriend, I wouldn't call her anything else,at
least right now. But that's what she is, my girlfriend. Why make a big
deal out of it guys? If that's what you have quit being a player.

No labels = lame.


I'm single too, Krystal. Why? Because most guys suck.

This is so not true in my world, the oddity is the one who is NOT
wanting to label it. I have to say early like by the second date, "I am
not looking into a committed, monogamos relationship". They ususally,
finally get the picture by the third or fourth date I have made to steps
toward changing my living arrangements in any way.

Personally, I think it's easier your way!

Oh, damn, I typed that way too fast, sorry about the typo's - I meant
they finally get the picture when I have made NO steps toward changing
my current living arrangements.

and I still think it's better to hang loose, without a label for a
while.

hummmm things have shange!!
before they wanted commitment and now they don't
go figure!!!

Well krystal I find the opposite story. A few months back this gal and I
had gone out several times (2+ months), I made her dinner at my house,
she made me dinner at her house, sure seemed like a bf-gf thing to me.
We had even talked about the relationship we were building. Then I made
a fatal error, I actually called her my gf - you should have seen the
eyes and I swear I got frostbite from the doorknob. Talked to a female
friend of mine and she also thought claiming a relationship as bf-gf is
prohibited. So I’m confused, are ya just supposed to take a leap at
some point in time from acquaintance to spouse?

wow
when is the right time to call someone a gf/bf?
does that necessarily mean a committment?

I personally don't want to call someone my Girlfriend (and be in a
commited relationship) unless she's what I want.

I was seeing this girl a while ago and we'd go to dinner, movies, the
beach, etc.... and every "now and then" we'd hook up for the night. I
wasn't seeing anyone else and after a while she brings up the
"Commitment" thing but my thoughts were "Why would I want to call a girl
my Girlfriend if I wasn't getting IT enough?" to me that sounds like I
would be rewarding something I wasn't happy with.

LMAO,,, sluggo, a christmas present to be returned, cause it dont
fit!!!!LOL

I hear you Fanta, it's like asking to commit to someone you know you'll
have to break up with in the future (why even get to that point).....

Reminds me of the old joke "What kind of Food kills a women sexual
drive?"

Answer: Wedding Cake

You don't really know your wife til you see her in court.

LMAO....
Never been Married,
I wouldn't know...

You don't want to know buddy.