If you and your significant other had intense feelings for each other but were incompatible in some very important ways, would you listen to your heart or listen to your head?

I'd listen to the door slam.....

eventually you have to listen to your head.. you're only putting off the inevitable...

youve gotta listen to your head...your heart is a dumbass...lol

i say go with your heart...live a little, you've got the rest of your life to listen to your head

The young say that, the experienced say otherwise..

This was actually the reason for my last breakup...

This has been the question that I have asked myself time and time again... but my hearts so damn big, I tell my head that it will all work out for the best.

Don't listen to your heart. Don't listen to your head. Listen to YOURSELF. You are not your feelings. You are not your brain. Like Tyler Durden says in Fight Club, "you are the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world."

Now, you're probably thinking to yourself, "WHAT THE HELL IS THIS GUY TALKING ABOUT???" lol I don't blame ya. This is kind of a weird concept, and I could only come to terms with really understanding it through meditation.

I guess you can only listen to "yourself" as I mentioned above if you "know thyself."

I can sketch out a simplified version of what I'm talking about by talking about VALUES. What are your core values, and in what order would you prioritize them? Let your own internal SOLID system of values be your guidance in this situation.

If you need help discovering your core values, consult anyone that does cold reading or practices NLP, which is a branch of hypnosis.