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 Where you ever in a situation where a breakup was a total surprise to you? What happened?
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Where you ever in a situation where a breakup was a total surprise to you? What happened?
Yup..back when I was 23..I was sort of engaged and guy broke it off and didn't even have the "rocks" to tell me..just left me to figure it out..the @$$wipe. 
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No. I planned my break up for years, before I left him.
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Yes, I found a thong on the chair in his bedroom and it wasn't mine!
  
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yeah we meet at dairy queen where we would have lunch. she told me that she didn't think i loved her. i told her i was in the middle of a divorce and didn't answer her about the loving her part. so she said it was over got in her car and left. it broke my heart, and come to find out years later she wanted me to chase after her. and prove my love to her or that i even wanted to be with her. go figure that !!!!
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Where you ever in a situation where a breakup was a total surprise to you? What happened?
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yeah we meet at dairy queen where we would have lunch. she told me that she didn't think i loved her. i told her i was in the middle of a divorce and didn't answer her about the loving her part. so she said it was over got in her car and left. it broke my heart, and come to find out years later she wanted me to chase after her. and prove my love to her or that i even wanted to be with her. go figure that !!!!
Of courrrrrrrrrrrrrrrse we want you to do that!! We want you to STOP us from leaving!! 
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oh yeah... dated a guy 2 1/2 years, he had joined the army, i traveled to go see him graduate boot camp as well as his first training courses, he proposed, i accepted, 2 months later he calls and says that he doesn't want to continue the relationship, 6 months later he gets married to the chick he was dating before me...
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yeah we meet at dairy queen where we would have lunch. she told me that she didn't think i loved her. i told her i was in the middle of a divorce and didn't answer her about the loving her part. so she said it was over got in her car and left. it broke my heart, and come to find out years later she wanted me to chase after her. and prove my love to her or that i even wanted to be with her. go figure that !!!!
Of courrrrrrrrrrrrrrrse we want you to do that!! We want you to STOP us from leaving!!
[/quote at that time in my life i felt like i had nothing to offer her . to bad i couldn't see into the future.  |
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yeah we meet at dairy queen where we would have lunch. she told me that she didn't think i loved her. i told her i was in the middle of a divorce and didn't answer her about the loving her part. so she said it was over got in her car and left. it broke my heart, and come to find out years later she wanted me to chase after her. and prove my love to her or that i even wanted to be with her. go figure that !!!!
This is why I would never date anyone that is going through a divorce. I mean...you are on the rebound!! You still needed time to figure things out...thats why I think you should not get involved with anyone while you are going through anything like this. Seriously, how could you honestly love her when you are not over your last relationship??? |
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yeah we meet at dairy queen where we would have lunch. she told me that she didn't think i loved her. i told her i was in the middle of a divorce and didn't answer her about the loving her part. so she said it was over got in her car and left. it broke my heart, and come to find out years later she wanted me to chase after her. and prove my love to her or that i even wanted to be with her. go figure that !!!!
Of courrrrrrrrrrrrrrrse we want you to do that!! We want you to STOP us from leaving!!
Sorry. She gets up and leaves....see ya. |
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Edited by
maxxximus007
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Thu 08/07/08 08:56 PM
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yeah we meet at dairy queen where we would have lunch. she told me that she didn't think i loved her. i told her i was in the middle of a divorce and didn't answer her about the loving her part. so she said it was over got in her car and left. it broke my heart, and come to find out years later she wanted me to chase after her. and prove my love to her or that i even wanted to be with her. go figure that !!!!
This is why I would never date anyone that is going through a divorce. I mean...you are on the rebound!! You still needed time to figure things out...thats why I think you should not get involved with anyone while you are going through anything like this. Seriously, how could you honestly love her when you are not over your last relationship??? |
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Would having your man come home after 3 weeks on the road, wearing another woman's frosted pink lipstick, and tell you he married the thing count as total surprise?
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Yeah, I was with him for 5 years. The whole time I was blind to him cheating on me. I completely trusted him, never suspected once that he had been lying and cheating.
When he told me, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" it was like a kick in the face. I didn't see it coming. I had no idea he had been planning to do this for at least 6 months. We never had a single fight. Until two weeks before I was to move out, when I heard him on the phone talking to his latest woman... then we had a screaming match. It was the worst 2 months of my life. |
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