Ok, so I've been with this girl for 3 months. Actually its been more like two months because she had a shoulder surgery at the beginning of the month and she told me she is in too much pain to get in to a car to go anywhere. Later she calls me to tell me she's in mid Texas going to New Mexico with her mom on a trip. She doesn't contact me for almost a week, I figured she was spending some time with her mom and enjoying some R&R. when she does text me she starts telling me about the cute guys where shes at. when she came back to south Texas I wasn't able to see her because of I was called in to stay at the hospital because of hurricane dolly. after it was over she left with some family friends to San Antonio. she called me later to tell me she was drunk, and that here friends tried to set her up with a bartender and a drummer. everybody keeps telling me she is probably cheating on me, but I think she's just having some fun before she starts the fall semester. Any advice?

She just not seem very truthful, i think you should pay less attention to her.

are you sure she is your gf>?>?>>> maybe she thinks of you as a friend?

Well we are suppose to be. I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes.

YOU are a FOOL Bro. She wasnt with her mom she was with her other boyfriend you noob thats why she didnt call you. You already know this but you're probably too nice of a guy to put it together.

I'm starting to think that. I just wonder if im being paranoid.

From her actions I don't think she's taking your relationship all to seriously. I'd definitely have a talk with her.

what Kev said

You're not. The fact she's calling you and telling about being hooked up shows she's really playing with you emotionally. Sorry Bro but if she was just with "Mom" she would have called you but it was something else plus I think the girlfriend title is very loose among other things with her. Use your head for thinking instead of wearing a hat. Cut the loss Bro but you probably wont will you....Just remember I told you.

I actually an going to break it off when she gets back. I would rather do it face to face, that way I can see her reaction. If any.

I am just curious - in what way is she using you? You don't even spend any time together.

All this has happened in the past month (july). The two months before we spent allot of time together. We actually got along good.

she changed her mind about you & is trying to let you know in her own distorted, devious way....

here is what you can do

and then walk away.....

Yeah, well, not anymore Dude.

Shes playin' and you're sayin'

This woman lacks anything remotely resembling a conscience. Drop her like a bad habit.

Ask her...

cut her loose hun.

Good God what is wrong with you people? Simply ask her the question one day, bring it up that it may or may not bother you...communication lacks enough in today's society, let alone with the likes of "get rid of her/dump her/dump him/cut em loose" comments. Communication can save a lot of difficult things in the future, if you feel she is being dishonest deal with it from there...but don't just drop any chance because of something that can quite possibly be innocent fun.

what she said

What did she take from you? How did she use you?
Did it cost next to nothing to get laid?
Think about