I can not stand it any longer. I have to say something about this. Last year I joined Just Say Hi in June of 07. After they changed to Mingle2 I thought things would be better. They weren't. Over the past 6 months I have sent out friend invites, e-mails (26 in one day), I have even sent out flirts. Nothing. Nada. I have been as sweet and nice and cordial as I can but nothing. Not even a flirt! All of the ladies are from the San Antonio area. I have been on other sites as well and it is the same thing. I get a lot of responses from outside the SA area but nothing from the ladies here. Before you say anything almost all of these ladies are above the age of 45! Although my profile says 21 to 60 I don't e-mail women below the age of 40. I have gotten a lot of responses from outside the area but nothing from this area. When I have blogged about this before everyone has something to say but nothing in defense ever comes out of this area. I guess I am right.

Sorry you have such a difficult time finding age-appropriate locals!! Best wishes for a better future!

Alcohol & Food helps ....and A friendly bar tender...

Join the party pal. Same here chicks don't write back you know the drill. MM and Friends list is a joke that's why I delete all. Go to a pay sight if your trying to meet someone cause I don't think your going to find it here in click city!

Try getting drunk and being an a$$ in the forums.
Thats when I get the most attention.

Well, those work, too.... but I like it most when you wiggle your tushy!!!

Online dating is not some sort of shortcut to dating, you still have to act and talk about things much like you would if you met a girl at a coffee shop or book store...but hey, what do I know...