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One of my daughter's was obnoxious at a restaurant when she was about 6. I made her go apologize to each and every table of people. Nipped that in the bud!!!
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I always say excuse you when they dont say lol it pisses them off
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The raising and instilling values falls on the parents, not the educational system (jmo). But some parents are too busy to actually teach their kids, that they sit back and allow any form of disrespect by brushing it off or just not acknowledging it. Fran I did include the parents but if adults in positions to demand respect don't (teachers, police officers, etc...)then who's to blame if they get mouthed? |
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i dont have too many problems with kids disrespecting me directly, they are afraid of me since 9 times out of 10 i am triple their size. but its the people im with that they get mean with, and when i look at them with the eyes that kill,, they tend to shut up real fast and walk away.
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The raising and instilling values falls on the parents, not the educational system (jmo). But some parents are too busy to actually teach their kids, that they sit back and allow any form of disrespect by brushing it off or just not acknowledging it. Fran I did include the parents but if adults in positions to demand respect don't (teachers, police officers, etc...)then who's to blame if they get mouthed? Hiya Des, Oh I did too in prior post, but trying to keep it politically correct as now a days if anyone tries to reprimand anothers child, the heavens are lowered and a major case is brought to court...  it is a parents job to instill values and teach right from wrong. Everyone associated with child will have a part in his/her upbringing as well, but the job is the parents (jmo)
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the problem in my eyes is that today alot of parents leave it up to anyone else but themselves to raise their kids. ie the internet, tv, teachers, anyone but themselves. then they wonder why are their kids such hellions. everyones afraid that if they spank their kids child services will be called. or that they will go to jail. some people need to grow a spine and be willing to show that certain behavior is not tolerated, will not be let slide, and that actions have correct reactions.
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Edited by
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Mon 08/04/08 07:49 AM
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One of my daughter's was obnoxious at a restaurant when she was about 6. I made her go apologize to each and every table of people. Nipped that in the bud!!!
 could see it on her face and hear it in her voice.
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some more..... nothing like going on a date to a resturaunt... sit at a booth.. when they seat you... and having kids standing up in the booth behind you jumping up and down and putting their hands near your head staring at you and your date...while their parent is sitting next to them to boot... unreal!!! or people who let their kids run around in the resturaunt and toddlers crawl all over the floor and under tables where all the food had dropped and peoples feet were then seat them in the highchair to eat! 
i remember when my kids were young and i took them to a resturant they were probabaly 12 10 and 5. and there were kids running around and jumping from table to table<yes empty tables> and standing in the seats... my kids replied what the heck? what is wrong with those parents to let their kids act all wild like that?
I had this happen...and I turned around and looked right at the dad and asked, "Could you please calm your kid. I am trying to eat man." He looked embarassed, and said something to his kid. Funny thing was that the kid looked at the dad as if he was speaking alien to him. Once I saw that, I laughed my ass. I looked at the kid real hard, and he turned around and never bothered me again. |
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what about getting responses like, he's only a kid, werent you a kid before, he's really not doing anything, or the ever popular, oh honey stop it with no enforcement whatsoever.
(parents making up excuses) |
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What it all boils down to is that stupid people shouldn't breed.........
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yikes, why dontcha tell us how you really feel cfl
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I also blame MTV!
God, I sound like my Mom did when I was growing up!
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yikes, why dontcha tell us how you really feel cfl
diplomacy has never been my strong point..... |
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so long as it works for you cfl
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yikes, why dontcha tell us how you really feel cfl
diplomacy has never been my strong point..... sometimes tact is highly over rated |
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I was walkin down the aisle of a store one day with my younger sister ( she was 12) and this teenage kid comes walkin by..and didn't slow down when he went to pass us..ran right into my shoulder knockin me backward. I said "well excuse you for not watchin where your walkin,thanx for the apology" his responce" B*tch...f*ck you*
  What is wrong with some peoples manners these days?
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I was walkin down the aisle of a store one day with my younger sister ( she was 12) and this teenage kid comes walkin by..and didn't slow down when he went to pass us..ran right into my shoulder knockin me backward. I said "well excuse you for not watchin where your walkin,thanx for the apology" his responce" B*tch...f*ck you* What is wrong with some peoples manners these days?
That is when you get the tazer out and teach him to mind his manners!! |
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I was walkin down the aisle of a store one day with my younger sister ( she was 12) and this teenage kid comes walkin by..and didn't slow down when he went to pass us..ran right into my shoulder knockin me backward. I said "well excuse you for not watchin where your walkin,thanx for the apology" his responce" B*tch...f*ck you* What is wrong with some peoples manners these days?
That is when you get the tazer out and teach him to mind his manners!! my tazer wasn't workin that day
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this is the silliest thing that pisses me off, a child responding Yeah!!!  or Huh!!! 
What happened to Yes, Yes Ma'am, Yes Sir.... just my $0.02 Makes me wonder, their parents didnt teach them to be polite, what did they teach them? Humm seems you hit it right on the head THE PARENTS DID NOT TEACH THEM!! More and more latch key kids Parents no longer want to be bothered with raising their kids instead they leave it up to the schools. Hummm then they want to go nuts when the Schools take the upper hand.
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what about getting responses like, he's only a kid, werent you a kid before, he's really not doing anything, or the ever popular, oh honey stop it with no enforcement whatsoever. (parents making up excuses) and heard me ask to be moved where we could possibly eat in enjoyment afterall you go to a resturant to enjoy your meal and relax... and i put it in those words ...boy those parents straightend up their kids after we moved
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