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Topic: 1st Email
faithfullguy31 Joined Sat 06/21/08 Posts: 217	Sun 08/03/08 09:10 PM
Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient. Good things come to he who waits.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 08/03/08 09:12 PM
Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient. Good things come to he who waits. What do you mean "out of your league"? Do you mean beautiful & popular?

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 08/03/08 09:13 PM
Guys, how do you feel about a lady e mailing you 1st? If you were interested wouldn't you send her one? to get to this,women have to work for it

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Sun 08/03/08 09:16 PM
i'm all for it If you have seen someone in the forums, maybe responed to her posts wouldn't you e mail her 1st if you were interested? yes i would, but i hope that a woman would do the same for me Thanks for your responses. I was raised not to make that 1st move, of course this kind of technology was only on Startrek! I have transfered those "rules" my mom taught me here & I am not comfortable e mailing 1st. I have droped stronmg hints at times & I assume a guy would e mail me 1st if he were interested. I agree with you TY Jules. But I wonder if we are too old fashioned? it's hard for me to change this feeling that I have to wait to be approached. Last time I dropped a hint the guy did e mail me, he was a being a gentleman though, & not really interested so I felt "bad". I don't know, maybe we are? But then again, I believe some things should stay the same.. men should make the first move. They can tell by our posts/hints..if we're interested, I think

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 08/03/08 09:18 PM
Guys, how do you feel about a lady e mailing you 1st? If you were interested wouldn't you send her one? to get to this,women have to work for it I'm not a "working girl"

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 08/03/08 09:19 PM
I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a woman

faithfullguy31 Joined Sat 06/21/08 Posts: 217	Sun 08/03/08 09:19 PM
Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient. Good things come to he who waits. What do you mean "out of your league"? Do you mean beautiful & popular? Yea, you could say that. My idea of beautiful usually means they could not possibly be interested in me.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 08/03/08 09:19 PM
i'm all for it If you have seen someone in the forums, maybe responed to her posts wouldn't you e mail her 1st if you were interested? yes i would, but i hope that a woman would do the same for me Thanks for your responses. I was raised not to make that 1st move, of course this kind of technology was only on Startrek! I have transfered those "rules" my mom taught me here & I am not comfortable e mailing 1st. I have droped stronmg hints at times & I assume a guy would e mail me 1st if he were interested. I agree with you TY Jules. But I wonder if we are too old fashioned? it's hard for me to change this feeling that I have to wait to be approached. Last time I dropped a hint the guy did e mail me, he was a being a gentleman though, & not really interested so I felt "bad". I don't know, maybe we are? But then again, I believe some things should stay the same.. men should make the first move. They can tell by our posts/hints..if we're interested, I think sigh You are right I think. I am just not what they want.

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Sun 08/03/08 09:20 PM
hi, ya hen

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Sun 08/03/08 09:20 PM
I can honestly say I have only sent out a handful of emails first in my year here.... and I have NO regrets they are either good friends of mine now... or the one that fills my heart

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 08/03/08 09:20 PM
I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a woman

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Sun 08/03/08 09:21 PM
I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a woman You would noooooooooooot

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Sun 08/03/08 09:21 PM
Either way, I am running at 50/50 Hi MM how are you? Doing just fine.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 08/03/08 09:23 PM
Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient. Good things come to he who waits. What do you mean "out of your league"? Do you mean beautiful & popular? Yea, you could say that. My idea of beautiful usually means they could not possibly be interested in me. So is beauty what gets your attention? If she's that beatiful you have to do something to stand out from the crowd of admirers. Like an original e mail! You have a very nice smile!

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Sun 08/03/08 09:25 PM
i'm all for it If you have seen someone in the forums, maybe responed to her posts wouldn't you e mail her 1st if you were interested? yes i would, but i hope that a woman would do the same for me Thanks for your responses. I was raised not to make that 1st move, of course this kind of technology was only on Startrek! I have transfered those "rules" my mom taught me here & I am not comfortable e mailing 1st. I have droped stronmg hints at times & I assume a guy would e mail me 1st if he were interested. I agree with you TY Jules. But I wonder if we are too old fashioned? it's hard for me to change this feeling that I have to wait to be approached. Last time I dropped a hint the guy did e mail me, he was a being a gentleman though, & not really interested so I felt "bad". I don't know, maybe we are? But then again, I believe some things should stay the same.. men should make the first move. They can tell by our posts/hints..if we're interested, I think sigh You are right I think. I am just not what they want. sigh me either ::shrug::

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 08/03/08 09:25 PM
I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a woman You would noooooooooooot I went to a party last night & missed out on getting a couple of phone #'s because I don't don't pick up on signals to well That being said, going to the gym is starting to work to my benifit now

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Sun 08/03/08 09:30 PM
I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a woman You would noooooooooooot I went to a party last night & missed out on getting a couple of phone #'s because I don't don't pick up on signals to well That being said, going to the gym is starting to work to my benifit now AWESOME JOB Proud of you!

faithfullguy31 Joined Sat 06/21/08 Posts: 217	Sun 08/03/08 09:32 PM
Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient. Good things come to he who waits. What do you mean "out of your league"? Do you mean beautiful & popular? Yea, you could say that. My idea of beautiful usually means they could not possibly be interested in me. So is beauty what gets your attention? If she's that beatiful you have to do something to stand out from the crowd of admirers. Like an original e mail! You have a very nice smile! Beauty does grab my attention altho it does not gain my full attention. I just believe that physical attraction is as important as mental and emotional attraction. For example: The tone of her voice, the way she looks at you, How deep can I get into her eyes... The list goes on and on. Thanks

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 08/03/08 09:32 PM
I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a woman You would noooooooooooot I went to a party last night & missed out on getting a couple of phone #'s because I don't don't pick up on signals to well That being said, going to the gym is starting to work to my benifit now AWESOME JOB Proud of you! Thank you

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sun 08/03/08 09:33 PM
i'm all for it If you have seen someone in the forums, maybe responed to her posts wouldn't you e mail her 1st if you were interested? yes i would, but i hope that a woman would do the same for me Thanks for your responses. I was raised not to make that 1st move, of course this kind of technology was only on Startrek! I have transfered those "rules" my mom taught me here & I am not comfortable e mailing 1st. I have droped stronmg hints at times & I assume a guy would e mail me 1st if he were interested. I agree with you TY Jules. But I wonder if we are too old fashioned? it's hard for me to change this feeling that I have to wait to be approached. Last time I dropped a hint the guy did e mail me, he was a being a gentleman though, & not really interested so I felt "bad". I don't know, maybe we are? But then again, I believe some things should stay the same.. men should make the first move. They can tell by our posts/hints..if we're interested, I think Some of us ( or maybe just me ) have never been good at picking up " hints " and " signals ".