How do u go from mutual match light conversation to actual meeting?

Like time through the hourglass,"so are the days of our lives" one day at a time,if it is meant to work out,then it will!
Good Luck to you!

I'd offer you my sage advice, but seeing as most of the men I've chatted with have inexplicably vanished into the night before an actual meet takes place, I'm afraid my words would be of little use. Hope your luck is better!

Dang that is not encouraging. I am too old for games like that.

I have no clue on how to help you here. I was supposed to meet a couple of people on here but, never happened..... It does get depressing after a while....that's why I'm on here just to make friends....

Just get to know each other and it will happen naturally

have u actually hooked up with someone from mingle2?

NO But I have made some friends and dates one person from this site

Actually dating him right now we have a ball . Going to festivals for days on end .

I move it from 'how are you doing today' to give me a call at xxx-xxx-xxxx. From the phone you move onto meeting. I have a couple that when through the same process and lo and behold I met up with them. Good place to meet is coffee shop cause you can either end it there if you aren't interested or go on and get a meal together. I've met a lot of men here. That they don't work out or just drag on into nothing is a different story.

1 I have met a few there are some issues when older people are in dating

1 Older women are so picky that no one matches their requirements just look at the profiles and the limits they set
2 Men are so wound up in their past that a woman with a little bit of padding seems to be below them they still want arm candy


In my case I have made some wonderful friends through mutual match and had it not been for high gas prces we would have continued meeting them and I have never told any one that I am not going to this first time meetings and I have never expected any one to tell me otherwise. It is not a big deal be yourselves meet people enjoy the time even though you may not want to see them again don't project what you are not

thank you. thats some good advice I will be trying.

Met, versus hooking up?
I've met some, and email with a few.
Having similar goals in common at the same time seems to determine how things go. Having set goals for the immediate future determines where the heart/mind set.
Hooking up? If the match isn't goal-oriented then the hook up doesn't happen. Many nice people are on their path to fulfillment, and their paths cross for a moment.
Good luck on your path.

It's because I threaten them to leave you alone... YOU'RE MINE ALL MINE... (those are wicked laughy faces)